My response to Modern day Feminism

Do you not think that the fact that women only need to be pretty and loyal is an issue in itself though? Women need to be strong willed, interesting and have jobs just as much as men do but some close minded people think that this is not a requirement. Those things are requirements of people in general, they are not limited to one gender.

Furthermore there is no equivalent of the word slut for a man. Slut isn't a positive word so why are you treating it as if it was? The apparent ease with which women can acquire the title screams of a system whereby women are shamed for natural instincts like sex which men can satisfy easily without being labled.

It's funny, I had to go back and edit this comment before posting because of the number of mitigating phrases I had put in. But I thought to myself "no, why should I have to apologise for feeling a certain way?" I am a strong willed and interesting woman who is a feminist.
I agree with you in the sense that men don't have a completely easy ride but god you have it easier than us. Anyway, suffering shouldn't be a competition, it's all subjective. Can't we just all acknowledge that men and women are equal and just treat each other as such?

I am a feminist but I don't hate men (I do hate feeling like I have to clarify that whenever I say I am a feminist though, however the societal stigma dictates that I should)

Socially speaking, you feminists say you want to be 'equal' to men, but you're wrong. Men and women are different, but equal in their inequality. That's how its always been since the dawn of time. Humans can't exist without women, and can't survive without men.

If I get a girl pregnant, she is seen in the eyes of the law as the carer of the kid by default. If I want her to get an abortion and she says no, I'm f*cked. Is that equal? No, because sex and the act of procreation is unequal by nature.

Economically speaking, the wage gap is a myth. If you have a man and woman who are equally educated and the woman is 'cheaper' because she's a woman, why the hell would anyone hire a man? Makes no sense.

Socially speaking, you feminists say you want to be 'equal' to men, but you're wrong. Men and women are different, but equal in their inequality. That's how its always been since the dawn of time. Humans can't exist without women, and can't survive without men.

If I get a girl pregnant, she is seen in the eyes of the law as the carer of the kid by default. If I want her to get an abortion and she says no, I'm f*cked. Is that equal? No, because sex and the act of procreation is unequal by nature.

Economically speaking, the wage gap is a myth. If you have a man and woman who are equally educated and the woman is 'cheaper' because she's a woman, why the hell would anyone hire a man? Makes no sense.

Furthermore there is no equivalent of the word slut for a man.

And that means that every other facet of life should also be unequal? Women have the same mental capabilities as men, and there is no reason why they should be treated any differently in the workplace. A woman is not "The automatic carer". There is often a main carer in a family, but that's not dictated by gender, it's dictated by circumstance. Of course if a guy leaves, he's not physically attached to the unborn child in the same way as the mother, but that's a horrible situation.

At the end of the day, it's a woman's body. The kid is INSIDE her, and if she wants it, she wants it. But there are ways around. For instance discussing and agreeing on what you want to do before you have sex. Humans developed advanced mental capabilities for a reason.
And a man will always have the freedom (during pregnancy at least) to leave, which the woman will not.

The concept of the wage gap is *shock, horror* women don't get paid less for the same job. They just can't get the same job, because of the glass ceiling.

And that means that every other facet of life should also be unequal? Women have the same mental capabilities as men, and there is no reason why they should be treated any differently in the workplace. A woman is not "The automatic carer". There is often a main carer in a family, but that's not dictated by gender, it's dictated by circumstance. Of course if a guy leaves, he's not physically attached to the unborn child in the same way as the mother, but that's a horrible situation.

At the end of the day, it's a woman's body. The kid is INSIDE her, and if she wants it, she wants it. But there are ways around. For instance discussing and agreeing on what you want to do before you have sex. Humans developed advanced mental capabilities for a reason.
And a man will always have the freedom (during pregnancy at least) to leave, which the woman will not.

The concept of the wage gap is *shock, horror* women don't get paid less for the same job. They just can't get the same job, because of the glass ceiling.

There's nothing to debate in all honestly, all of the (non) issues the guys on this thread are complaining about aren't at all enforced by women but instead by other men. Nice try though.