Hello
I'll try and keep this brief but would be grateful for you some advice guys
I met this guy online on plenty of fish back in November, and so we have been going out since then (approx 5-months). We have a great time and get on well, and I really like him. We agreed to see each other exclusively - I brought this up when we first starting having sex as I didn't really like the idea of sleeping and being intimate with someone who was also sleeping with or seeing other people. This wasn't really a big deal to be honest as I just brought it up casually and he agreed that he didn't think that was ok either
We see each other about twice per week. I haven't really brought up 'defining the relationship' or anything like that because I just wanted things to progress naturally. We message everyday and know what each other are doing/ up to etc.
I haven't logged onto my plenty of fish (pof) account in months - although I haven't deleted it, I don't use it and havent logged on. I went and just searched for him the other day (just by putting in details rather than logging in) as I was going to get him a gift which was related to something in his profile and I wanted to check this. Anyways - it basically came up with him showing as 'online today.'
I was really shocked but anyway went onto google this and it turns out this is quite a common problem with people who use POF especially on the mobile app - on their forums online it has loads of threads where people have posted about this happening. Essentially as long as you have the mobile app installed, it can show online whenever you are connected to a wifi or data connection. I use the desktop app but I think he has it on his phone
Now, its his birthday this weekend which is why I was sorting out the gift and am also planning a nice evening with him on Sat for his birthday.
I'm abit anxious by seeing this and I really didn't think he was looking to date anyone else - I don't have any reason to distrust him though. We message regularly and know what each other are up to so I don't think he is seeing anyone else.
I guess I'm just looking for abit of advice on what to do?
Whether to bring this up? Or how to casually address it?
I don't like the idea of him 'shopping around' after we have been together for 5-months exclusively - but also don't want to be paranoid if its just an honest mistake as I don't have any reason to doubt him otherwise
Thanks