Basically about 1 month ago my friends said that this girl (who hates me) was way better looking than me, I was upset but I just have really honest friends lol. Anyway I go onto this chat room regular and asked people in that room to compare our pictures I posted one pic of me and one of her (which I got off her my space) which shows how insecure and stupid I am. I was talking to a member of the chat room today and hes from near where I live and he asked me to describe myself and I did then he posted my pic Which means he had saved it on his pc. He said he had shown it to his friends and asked the to compare us.
I don't want her to know that Ive done this but do you think she will find out? I mean do people tend to pass random pics on and on or what?? Im never posting anyones pic again. Im scared of her, what if she finds out what do I say?
Basically about 1 month ago my friends said that this girl (who hates me) was way better looking than me, I was upset but I just have really honest friends lol. Anyway I go onto this chat room regular and asked people in that room to compare our pictures I posted one pic of me and one of her (which I got off her my space) which shows how insecure and stupid I am. I was talking to a member of the chat room today and hes from near where I live and he asked me to describe myself and I did then he posted my pic Which means he had saved it on his pc. He said he had shown it to his friends and asked the to compare us.
I don't want her to know that Ive done this but do you think she will find out? I mean do people tend to pass random pics on and on or what?? Im never posting anyones pic again. Im scared of her, what if she finds out what do I say?
OMG, that's, like, the worst thing ever!!!!11 Who cares? Just tell her to shove her ego up her arse, or sleep with her. Either way, you win.
Unless someone went as far as saving the convo, which they wouldnt unless they knew you'd get into trouble and thats the result they wanted, chances are they'll have only saved the pictures, and how can anyone really prove it was u who asked for the comparison?
I doubt she'l get it. I mean how can she if she doesn't know the people it was posted too? He could however put it on a 'comparing' website where girls are compared, do they exist?
Unless someone went as far as saving the convo, which they wouldnt unless they knew you'd get into trouble and thats the result they wanted, chances are they'll have only saved the pictures, and how can anyone really prove it was u who asked for the comparison?
If she gets gobby, tell her to shut her mouth.
well it would be a bit odd as she has a completely different group of friends to me so would suspect it was me as someone told her I was insecure about my looks lol. That same pic of her that the guy has is also on my space so if he goes on my space and sees her profile, he'l notice the pic is familiar and might message her and show her my pic.
^Basically. Its obvious that what your friend said really hurt you. Fair enough its good to have honest mates, but there are limits and it seems to me she over stepped the line!! The problem shouldn't lie with this girl you hate, it should lie with your so-called friend.
She put her picture on the internet. The internet is a ruthless place. Much worse things could have happened to it (and probably already have). If she finds out (which I doubt she will) and gets gobby, simply tell her that she should be more careful with personal pictures and information in the future.
So which one of you did the chat room people judge to be better looking - you or her?
But don't worry about it. She probably won't find out and if she does then there's not much you can do about it now. Besides, she doesn't like you anyway (so you said) so you've nothing to lose really.
The chances of her finding out are pretty slim. But I would just like to point out that you really need to stop basing your ego on attractive you are. So what if she is better looking? So what if she's not? If she's a bitch, then you have the moral high ground (and probably have more respect from people), and that should be enough.
Shes not likely to find out and if she does who cares? You hate her anyway. You really shouldnt compare yourself to her looks and as for your "friends" being honest well no wonder you dont have masses of self esteem. Chances are if shes a bitch people will much prefer you anyway.