I don't know if i should be angry!

Well, basically i was invited to go out with some people who were visiting my house...friends of some other people who live here. I went out to a bar with them and then they told me that they already have some sort of VIP thing for the club we're going to and that i may have to queue up (alone) while they go in...and that they would try to get me in too but they don't want to push it with the bouncers, i only joined this group last minute.

We got to the club and they were saying nobody can get in without tickets (pre-payed), VIP or not. So we were talking about going somewhere else...when somebody ended up with 4 tickets, probably the guy who knew the bouncers...there were 6 of us though.

Three guys walked in, then the two girls only had one ticket between them, i heard the bouncer say "is it just you two then?" One of them said yes, and they walked in without looking back...leaving me alone. Of course i couldn't get in. And the bouncers are looking at me like "go away".

I barely know these people, i met most of them just tonight, only 1 of them lives at my house...i'm gonna be with her all year...and i feel like i got ****ed over. They did warn me in advance...but i still feel like they were unfair to me. Am i wrong to be angry at these people? It's not like i was a loner in this group, i was active in the conversations and getting along with them.

I feel especially angry with the two girls at the end who said yes when they were asked if it was just those two trying to get in under 1 ticket. Am i wrong for that? I don't know who to be angy at :\

Sorry for any typo's, i'm really quite drunk now...i'd try to sleep but my head would end up spinning and i'd feel sick :frown:

Reply 1

Fluent in Lies

It wasn't especially nice of them, but I wouldn't get worked up about it.

Reply 2

username47781

How horrible of them, they invite you out then do that to you, sorry they ain't true friends.

Reply 3

Renal

Rock Fan

sorry they ain't true friends.

I have met, maybe, half a dozen people who I consider true friends. Funilly enough, I have never been allocated accom with one of these people.

Reply 4

randomreg

It's unfortunately the selfish side of people, especially if they had been drinking a bit beforehand. They didn't know you very well, they probably felt their initial warning was enough, they were more concerned with themselves getting in the club, etc., etc.

Although it's pretty unkind to treat you like that, I would let it go and put it down to experience. If you don't know people too well, they are even less likely to deal fairly with you than a friend would. And even good friends can sometimes get carried away with the excitement of some situations.

They probably weren't even thinking about it and would be confused and annoyed if you brought it up with them. They would probably just fall back on the fact that they explained the possibilities in advance.

I'm very sorry you had a bad time, though. Sometimes, people are dumb.