Being blown off...why?

[Some] girls are bitches.

It hurts, you know - especially when you make an effort to be social - when I was speaking to the girl giving me eye contact I gave the other girl eye contact too, I spoke to everyone in the group. But then, I had to put up with that?

Fair enough if I was hitting on her, but I wasnt even hitting on her like wtf?

She's vindictive, superficial and, having dismissed you out-of-hand as unattractive, decides it would profit her none to muster the necessary strength-of-will to be civil; especially when, being (objectively) physically repugnant, you're liable to misconstrue any lack of outright hostility for wanton, unbridled lust and an implicit sexual proposition along the lines of "take me now, you smouldering slab of Armani-marinaded man-meat".

At least, that's been my experience.

Some girls are really rude and paranoid, assume that every guy must be hitting on them because they're so perfect (though this paranoia is usually caused by a lack of self-confidence), and thus try to dissuade you from making any more contact with them by being rude. Some also think you're beneath them and only save their breath for people they can use in the future. Quite a few guys like that too.

She wasn't even fit, that was the irony of it all.

But then again, I suppose she thought I wasn't too - hahaha. Bull****.

Let her live in her castle in the sky. She'll come down to earth eventually, and it won't be a pretty landing.

Some girls are really rude and paranoid, assume that every guy must be hitting on them because they're so perfect (though this paranoia is usually caused by a lack of self-confidence), and thus try to dissuade you from making any more contact with them by being rude. Some also think you're beneath them and only save their breath for people they can use in the future. Quite a few guys like that too.

Oh, absolutely. It truly is the most loathsome conceit: unfortunately, being ginger (whether or not you are more Damien Lewis or Justin Timberlake than Chris Evans or Charles Kennedy) means that there is a certain kind of cureless bitch whom you can expect to treat you with utter and brazen contempt right off the bat.

You should move to the US. Everyone loves gingers here, especially in New York City, where everyone and their dog claim to be Irish.

And anything that sounds remotely like Hugh Grant or Stephen Fry (which, I'm told, I do); yes, so I gather.

Or China, where red signifies 'good luck'. Though I'm not yet at the nadir of conceding my civil liberties for the sake of a lay. (Next year, perhaps.)

Yeah, normally I would not let this bother me, like I know I am not the best looking guy in the world, but I like talking to girls because they seriously do fascinate me with their behaviour sometimes.

Eventually with this girl, I just got so fed up, drank my drink and started speaking to her flatmate and my mate. She ended up tidying the flat up....

I the hostess greeted my flatmate, but didn't say anything to me. I said hello, and went for the handshake but her handshake was so flimsy and rubbish.

The hostess on the other hand, I found to be very distant and not talking to me properly when I just asked very simple questions.

I had good bodylanguage, laid back on the couch and chatted to everyone in the group, introduced myself to everyone and told them my name etc. Yet I cant understand why I got blew off for no apparent reason.

Thanks

[Some] girls are bitches.