Be so different if you were a lot more attractive... I just think it would be so much more enjoyable and you would feel so much confident. It can just get frustrating like at school and uni when people are in relationships and stuff but no one has ever liked you :/ like all my friends always have girls who like them and I kinda feel left out. Worst thing is trying to approach girls as I normally get way to shy so never even do, like throughout the whole first yr I wanted to talk to this one person but just never did because I thought she would think less of me.
But seems as though from my experience at uni when I see other unattractive guys & girls they just get ignored/ strange look even when just introducing themselves on the first days to course mates being friendly, whereas if a good looking person went to just say hey how are you, they would act so different.(I agree it's human nature, but still kinda sucks) even simple stuff such as walking down the streets or in the library, it must be nice people actually just thinking that guy looks good and people who've experienced that feeling must feel great!
Really can be a cruel world, I get particularly frustrated from the fact that My parents are very good looking and my sister is too. The there's me who always looks way out of place out of us 4 and you wouldn't have even guessed I was in the family :/ my dad even said this once but he was more referring to cause I'm just a different skin colour to them rather than being ugly. (At least I'm the brainy one which has counted for absolutely nothing in my 19 year s of life this far 😂😭)
Like at least for unattractive people with parents or their grandparents who don't look then you would be understanding but when the above happens then you reaally just feel like you've been so unlucky and just give up with life.
Like what's the point of a good education degree ect ect. I think the most important part of life is surely finding someone who loves you? everything else seems pretty minor tbh but I guess most people only realise this when they're slightly older and when younger they just rightly enjoy life.
Legit I think you learn a lot about yourself when you're not good looking and you treat others better so that's the only one advantage, think many people would agree say you were reborn and good looking I would treat everyone with respect.
Anyone else have any thoughts on this or can relate?