He's Ignoring Me...

Ok, met a guy who i been talkin to a while on the internet. Went to his house watched dvd, hugged n kissed and that was that. Met him again bt this time we spent the evenin just talkin n tht in his car. Ended up doing sexual things with him and now he's hardly talking to me. The bugger said he wouldnt ignore me but, I really should of had my wits about me and not fallin for it but of course, charm got me once again!!!!!

Any advice as to what I should do or should I just ignore him - seeing as he's off to Thailand for good in a few weeks????

Reply 1

jumpinglunch

Live and learn,you just got played. :smile:

When they say "I promise I won't ignore you",run away.

Reply 2

Star Princess

Thailand for good - forget him!

Reply 3

Sugar_Puff_Fairy

Forget about him, he sounds like a bit of a dick, and learn from the experience so you don't get hurt in the same way again!

Reply 4

username47781

Sounds like he just wanted a piece of you, learn next time not to make it so easy for the guy.

Reply 5

Megatronix

You just got used, sorry.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

I didnt have sex with him - just to illustrate, well not proper sex anyway!!!?

Reply 7

username47781

No but he still got what he wanted and that was to touch you up.

Reply 8

sugar_cane

He did use you, and falling for his charm gave him what he wanted.
Some guys are like that, I know how you feel.
It's unfortunate that you got attached to him :hugs:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

It sucks being used. I keep saying to myself be more wise n dont fall for the charm but it happens all the time! :frown:

Why are the very small miniority of men so mean to girls and feel the need to use us???

Reply 10

sugar_cane

They don't want to be mean (or I don't think they do).
They just want some "action" or so to speak.
Who you fall for can't be helped, but just try to be rational about whoever starts to be so up-front and "hands-on".

Reply 11

jumpinglunch

Anonymous

It sucks being used. I keep saying to myself be more wise n dont fall for the charm but it happens all the time! :frown:

Why are the very small miniority of men so mean to girls and feel the need to use us???

Well the signs were there:

He promised he wouldn't ignore you.
Then proceeds with a date in his car...................

Reply 12

Rei

Its her fault tbh.. sorry if i can't sympathise.. just gotta learn and move on

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

^^It wasnt a date - we just went out for a drive.

I said to him, ''i hope you dont ignore me'' and he said ''no i wont do that because that's not nice''.

I dont know if im reading too much into it or because he's just had a bad week - with work n etc that maybe why he's ignoring me - i dunno.

Reply 14

sokissme

if he is ignoring you AT ALL after you said "i hope you dont ignore me", and showed that you were worried about it...then he is a dick.
forget him!!

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

^^Well I wouldnt say he's ignoring me as such - I would say he's not as chatty as before, dont know if that is because he's busy sorting things out for going away or just working loads. I guess I may just be looking into it too much, but its just abit ''weird'' between us now. I guess what we done shouldnt of happened. Oh well, plenty more fish in the sea and definately have learnt from this lesson.

Reply 16

*Tears and Butterflies*

Did you actually get on well? Or was the whole thing oorientated towards him getting what he wanted from you? (without sounding harsh) When you realised what he was like was it like you knew deep down that he would proably behave in this way. Hence you felt the need to ask him if he would ignore you?