Should I Trust him??

The same thing happens for me everytime.
I get like obssessed and can't stop thinking about the guy, then we meet up get to like him more and then he shows more 'keeness' and then I don't fancy them anymore. Maybe i'm afraid of getting hurt like previously, but I don't know what to do. I like this guy now, whos a year older, but he has quite a lot of friends who are girls, and I wouldn't be able to trust him.
Should I just go out with him and see what happens?
We've been out for coffee and that went really well, had a few laughs and got to know each other better. But I don't know what to do now. It seems I hate clingly guys, and since I've given him my mobile number he's been texting me everyday, and when I get the text I get all happy but puzzled about what to reply and whether I should as I am so confused about how I feel about him :frown:

What should i do??????

Thanks xxxxx

Reply 1

Bismarck

Stop playing games and stop thinking too much. Don't assume hidden motives behind everything.

Reply 2

Crazylittlefool - - - x

Put yourself in my position, what would you do?

Reply 3

herbal bug

I understand how you may be feeling. however I'd give it a go. Like the above post- not everyone ha hidden agenda's and there are some decent guys out there. If you don't trust again now, how will you know when you are ready too next time?

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Reply 4

Bismarck

I'm not a girl, so I really can't imagine how girls can worry about "problems" that guys don't even know exist. If you're happy when he texts you, why do you have to give yourself an anxiety attack thinking what it means and whether you should reply? If you think that's being clingy and you don't like clingy guys, then fair enough. But that's not the impression I got from your post.

And him having lots of female friends does not make him any more or less likely to cheat on you. Presumably there's a reason why he wants to go out with you and not those friends.