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Original post by anosmianAcrimony

Huh, I didn't realise my studying biochemistry was this much of a selling point. Then again, most of the girls I meet are also doing biochemistry so I can't imagine it would really help that much.

I know, right? I guess it's just the impression that you've got to be smart then and will probably earn quite a bit? I don't really get why it would affect a relationship tho xD

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gjd800

Original post by Devify

Wait, are people really that happy to date someone on a stem degree?

I'm really not arsed either way.

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Devify

Original post by hezzlington

Whenever you are cuddling and having sex with your bf..

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Doubt it luv, he's pretty possessive

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anosmianAcrimony

Original post by Devify

I know, right? I guess it's just the impression that you've got to be smart then and will probably earn quite a bit? I don't really get why it would affect a relationship tho xD

No, nor do I. I'm not wild about the idea of girls approaching me for the sake of my future salary. For one thing, I'm thinking about being a teacher, so I'll probably earn piss all anyway. =P

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hezzlington

Original post by Devify

Doubt it luv, he's pretty possessive

i know he is sweetheart, I know.

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Fenneko

remember when sex relations were a private thing?
who am i kidding. it's tsr.

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Reality Check

Original post by Joel 96

remember when sex relations were a private thing?
who am i kidding. it's tsr.

I know. Nothing is private any longer - it's all kiss-and-tell blurt it all out for attention.

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JackH56

Original post by Devify

I'm too paranoid haha, on the pill and always use condoms, even if they are a slight pain to get for us, just cause I definitely don't want kids. Don't want STDs either.

Shouldnt the condoms be easy to get? i mean its difficult as a teen but probably not when you are over 18

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Devify

Original post by anosmianAcrimony

No, nor do I. I'm not wild about the idea of girls approaching me for the sake of my future salary. For one thing, I'm thinking about being a teacher, so I'll probably earn piss all anyway. =P

Yeah, not really the reason I'd want to get into a relationship with someone. Teaching can be :innocent:

but it's pretty rewarding. Have you done anything like that? My uni has a scheme where students can sign up to work as an ambassador and some schools ask for someone to come in and teach a couple of sessions. So I've been going to quite a few schools to teach. It's pretty interesting how the skill range varies and how different ages act.

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anosmianAcrimony

Original post by Devify

Yeah, not really the reason I'd want to get into a relationship with someone. Teaching can be :innocent:

At the moment I'm doing Peer Assisted Study Sessions, which is where two higher-year biochemists (one of which is me) and 2-8 first-years get together in a room and talk about course material and assignments and uni life. It's not nearly as structured as proper teaching, and we're only meant to 'facilitate discussion' instead of teaching anything in particular, but I still think it has helped. My partner and I tend to make plans in advance based on what they tell us they want to go over on Facebook.

Keep a diary?

Original post by anosmianAcrimony

Yeah, that definitely helps. I would say that's more like mentoring but it is something to start with. What kind of ages would you like to teach?

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Devify

Original post by JackH56

Shouldnt the condoms be easy to get? i mean its difficult as a teen but probably not when you are over 18

20 actually. And usually they are pretty simple but umm

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Devify

Original post by Joel 96

remember when sex relations were a private thing?
who am i kidding. it's tsr.

I'm sorry if I have always been a pretty open person and don't find anything embarrassing about talking about my relationships.

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JackH56

Original post by Devify

20 actually. And usually they are pretty simple but umm

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Now thats what i call dedication ahaha. isnt it painful? ~ thats what i heard from the featured part on snapchat

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username2877804

Just my advice but maybe you should like...go outside

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Devify

Original post by JackH56

Now thats what i call dedication ahaha. isnt it painful? ~ thats what i heard from the featured part on snapchat

It took a while but I got a lot of teasing and size jokes out of it so worth it :wink:

And yeah, can be, especially in the beginning. Thankfully the female body adapts pretty quick and I'm one of those people who think that some pain only brings out the pleasure more so it's something I just deal with.