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Why do older adults try it with 16/17 year olds?

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Its because they can't get anyone their own age. 16 yearolds are easier to impress and generally lack confidence. They lack the life experience to smell :innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent:.

Younger girls are easier to manipulate and dominate. They don't know what other men have to offer. The haven't experienced a non-abusive relationship. You can shape young girls how you want and make them believe anything is normal.
What a toxic thread.
Reply 62
Original post by gareths
i wil find a loyal gf


Good, im your age, no clue why you want an older woman
Original post by dasgreatm8
Good, im your age, no clue why you want an older woman


she may be more mature
:cry::cry:

Why is everyone ignoring me..?
Guys in their 20s are usually more mature and wise.
I'm quite mature and sensible for my age which is why ive had friends telling me it'd be a good idea to be with someone at least 2 years older than me.
if the girl aged 16-17 does not want to be in a relationship or is feeling upset or not comfy and they guy is not listening to her feelings of course that is wrong. 16 is the age of consent here in the UK so like it or not it is actually legal. Your post to me calling me a Autistic :innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent: was not right. I am only friends with this girl and she actually values my friendship with me and as im in the same class as her im not going to just ignore her.

And actually i would not want to do anything with her but it is the same age gap as 20-27 so its not a huge deal. It is not like im some 30-70 year old bloke wanting to be friends with her, i would agree then that would actually be very weird.

You say find autistic people, well like it or not there are no people with high functioning autism at my college. Most people with autism at my college are now in skills for working life and have very bad learning difficulties. I am not going to stop being friends with someone if it means i have to sit in college feeling depressed and even more close to suicide.
Reply 67
Original post by 1secondsofvamps
Guys in their 20s are usually more mature and wise.
I'm quite mature and sensible for my age which is why ive had friends telling me it'd be a good idea to be with someone at least 2 years older than me.


Exactly what my female friend said, until the guy sent explicit images of her to his friends.
Original post by footballman123
I just sent you a pm saying its not the end of the world. I am not some 70 year old bloke i am 24 years old there is nothing wrong with making friends with females.

For example my dad is 55 and my mum is 47. That is a larger age gap then 17 and 24 so its not a huge deal


you should feel ashamed of yourself, get a gf your age
It's funny actually because I'm 17 and was speaking to a girl who's 16 nearly 17 and I thought to myself 'whoa stop being a creep'
Reply 70
Original post by footballman123
if the girl aged 16-17 does not want to be in a relationship or is feeling upset or not comfy and they guy is not listening to her feelings of course that is wrong. 16 is the age of consent here in the UK so like it or not it is actually legal. Your post to me calling me a Autistic :innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent::innocent: was not right. I am only friends with this girl and she actually values my friendship with me and as im in the same class as her im not going to just ignore her.

And actually i would not want to do anything with her but it is the same age gap as 20-27 so its not a huge deal. It is not like im some 30-70 year old bloke wanting to be friends with her, i would agree then that would actually be very weird.

You say find autistic people, well like it or not there are no people with high functioning autism at my college. Most people with autism at my college are now in skills for working life and have very bad learning difficulties. I am not going to stop being friends with someone if it means i have to sit in college feeling depressed and even more close to suicide.


You dont need any interaction with girls though. Just watch some porno
She is not even my girlfriend get that into your thick skull. What do you expect me to do when im in college, just sit lonely and get even more depressed. There is nothing wrong with being FRIENDS.
Original post by CraigBackner
you should feel ashamed of yourself, get a gf your age


Leave the dude alone. 17 and 24 is not a large age gap.
Reply 73
Original post by footballman123
She is not even my girlfriend get that into your thick skull. What do you expect me to do when im in college, just sit lonely and get even more depressed. There is nothing wrong with being FRIENDS.


Yes, that's fine. I never said otherwise. what's wrong is pursuing a sexual relationship
Original post by dasgreatm8
You dont need any interaction with girls though. Just watch some porno


Um, so how would i find a family, have a life. I am not going to be some person sitting at home watching Porn.

And if you really want to know she actually has a boyfriend who is 21 so i wouldn't even try and date her even if i was interested which im not
Reply 75
Original post by dasgreatm8
Exactly what my female friend said, until the guy sent explicit images of her to his friends.





sending naked/provocative pics of your gf to your mates is quite juvenile

tbh, a guy her own age is more likely to do that than a dude in his 20's
Original post by Jessika300599
Leave the dude alone. 17 and 24 is not a large age gap.


Original post by dasgreatm8
You dont need any interaction with girls though. Just watch some porno


yeah your also a virigin
Original post by dasgreatm8
Yes, that's fine. I never said otherwise. what's wrong is pursuing a sexual relationship


I would not want to have a sexual relationship with her. I would actually find it weird as well because the age woman i am looking for is between 21-24.

What i am saying is if a 16 or 17 year old did have a relationship with a 24 year old/older then the LAW says that their is nothing wrong with it, like it or not that is the place we live in. If a 16 year old decided to have a date with a 45 year old then the law would say there is nothing wrong with it even though the majority of people including myself would have a problem with it.

Being friends with her is ok though, she also has loads of other friends and is in my class. My tutor also asked me to help her out with her assignments because she has been struggling a little bit so i am not just going to say no im not helping her.
Original post by dasgreatm8
Sorry, but if you're over 25 and trying it with a kid then thats just messed up. What do you talk about? You're in completely different life stages and there's no excuse for a predatory relationship. It's usually an older man, who takes advantage of the girls naivety and they do end up regretting it.

If you're in one, think hard about how no one your own age finds you attractive and appealing and the only people who find you appealing is younger girls who have a weird fetish for older man, which in most cases is just a phase. You're just taking advantage of vulnerable people.


Original post by dasgreatm8
Agreed. These are lonely sad men who are fully aware of how they're taking advantage of these girls but their sexual predation knows no bounds.

The term "daddy issues" is usually reserved for young girls in their 20s looking for a man in the 40s which is probably more acceptable than this. However now even 17yos have daddy issues. Its really messed.


Why is a girl in her early 20s seeking a man in his 40s (20 year age gap) more acceptable than a 25 yo getting with a 17 yo (8 year age gap)?
Reply 79
Original post by ANM775
sending naked/provocative pics of your gf to your mates is quite juvenile

tbh, a guy her own age is more likely to do that than a dude in his 20's


Well the guy was in her 20s.

Original post by CraigBackner
yeah your also a virigin


It's *you're. And no, im not.

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