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OP

maybe i dont show the love he always shows me but i told him im not used to all that stuff as i havent felt that way before and its my first time into a long term relationship it isnt just a fling to me but im his first girlfriend too and hes 16

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OP

Original post by Charlie-Jo

maybe i dont show the love he always shows me but i told him im not used to all that stuff as i havent felt that way before and its my first time into a long term relationship it isnt just a fling to me but im his first girlfriend too and hes 16

is it possible to show him love

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Original post by Charlie-Jo

is it possible to show him love

how old are you? :K:

Reply 5

999tigger

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Original post by Charlie-Jo

is it possible to show him love

Do more things together?
Be a bit more tactile?

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OP

Original post by sayema1

how old are you? :K:

i am 14

Reply 7

OP

Original post by 999tigger

Do more things together?
Be a bit more tactile?

We are unable to as i am in Liverpool and he is in Wales and my parents don't like him

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Original post by Charlie-Jo

i am 14

err umm don't you think you're tooooo young for a long-term relationship or any kind of relationships? O.o

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OP

Original post by sayema1

err umm don't you think you're tooooo young for a long-term relationship or any kind of relationships? O.o

We both know what we are doing and we both know what we want and what we want is each other

Reply 10

Moonstruck16

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Some people just aren't very romantic. Is that the problem?

Anyway, it's the little things that go the long way. Be there for him, get to know him, remember his likes and dislikes etc. Do fun things together, be spontaneous.

It's hard to give advice on how to show somebody you love them because ultimately, people have different ideas what love is, different ideas of how it should be shown, and ultimately, people perceive things differently.

Also, unless you want generic advice that you can probably find on Google, most of the specific advice we give is going to be based on what we like.

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Original post by Charlie-Jo

We both know what we are doing and we both know what we want and what we want is each other

ohh okhay good luck :smile:

Hope you guys stay together forrevveeerr :smile:

Reply 12

OP

Original post by sayema1

ohh okhay good luck :smile:

Hope you guys stay together forrevveeerr :smile:

Mee too but the way we are carrying on things wont last, theres trust issues and a lot off them lately

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Original post by Charlie-Jo

Mee too but the way we are carrying on things wont last, theres trust issues and a lot off them lately

happens at this age :smile:

but dw if you think he misunderstood u for some reason then stay strong and faithful in your relationship, you will surely be successful in having a good life with him in future :h:

Reply 14

OP

Original post by sayema1

happens at this age :smile:

but dw if you think he misunderstood u for some reason then stay strong and faithful in your relationship, you will surely be successful in having a good life with him in future :h:

We have had a few issues lately with people telling him i have cheated on him when they dont know who i am because they are jealous and they believe him and then we are always arguing over nothing and it winds me up because he doesnt ask me first and i told him i wouldnt cheat id leave if i wanted to be with someone else

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Original post by Charlie-Jo

We have had a few issues lately with people telling him i have cheated on him when they dont know who i am because they are jealous and they believe him and then we are always arguing over nothing and it winds me up because he doesnt ask me first and i told him i wouldnt cheat id leave if i wanted to be with someone else

ohh that's sad :frown:

caalm dowm give him some time :smile:

he will be alright :h:

if he really loves you, he will never let u go :smile:

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