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First kiss wasted?
I've been feeling down all week because last saturday, at a party, I got a lil intimate with a boy I liked for a while. Neither of us were at all drunk, but I'm very very shy and I just had a drink to relax.
We were together for quite a while, on the dance floor and off. And eventually when we were away from everyone we kissed. I was so dazed and just dreamed away on Sunday. But on Monday, I was all ready to talk to get to know him some more, but suddenly I felt like everyone in my sixth form was watching us. I'd completly forgotten about this side of things.
It hurts me that people I've known for so long will just believe silly rumours about how I've done things with a boy I hardly known. And now, a week later, its gotten to the point where I hate going to school because of this.
I've had an opportunity to talk to him a few times, but, I get so flushed and just can't breathe it feels like!
It was my first kiss, and I don't regret it. But I feel a bit used for some reason. And now people are saying that he just wants one thing - as a result of the grapevine and whats been said. I really don't want to feel like I gave my first kiss to a man whore.
I really want to talk but I'm losing confidence about it more and more everyday. And it feels like I'm the only one out of us two that actually wants to get to know the other! I should be concentrating on my alevels...but I'm just falling for him more and more...
Was this just a Saturday night thing I should forget about?
We were together for quite a while, on the dance floor and off. And eventually when we were away from everyone we kissed. I was so dazed and just dreamed away on Sunday. But on Monday, I was all ready to talk to get to know him some more, but suddenly I felt like everyone in my sixth form was watching us. I'd completly forgotten about this side of things.
It hurts me that people I've known for so long will just believe silly rumours about how I've done things with a boy I hardly known. And now, a week later, its gotten to the point where I hate going to school because of this.
I've had an opportunity to talk to him a few times, but, I get so flushed and just can't breathe it feels like!
It was my first kiss, and I don't regret it. But I feel a bit used for some reason. And now people are saying that he just wants one thing - as a result of the grapevine and whats been said. I really don't want to feel like I gave my first kiss to a man whore.
I really want to talk but I'm losing confidence about it more and more everyday. And it feels like I'm the only one out of us two that actually wants to get to know the other! I should be concentrating on my alevels...but I'm just falling for him more and more...
Was this just a Saturday night thing I should forget about?
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It seems like a kiss has been given waay to much attention...
you said that people have been spreading rumours and saying things? Why? If someone is spreading rumours about a kiss, then they are obviously really quite sad and have nothing better to do... ignore them, theire social lives obviously consist of talking to the milkman every now and again...
Tbh, I think the only reason why he doesn't want to get to know you is you've waited too long... If nothing is done within a week (!) it just looks like you don't want to do anything...
Omg, sorry I can't get over this... a kiss and suddenly he's a complete man whore and just wants one thing? Come off it... seriously, ignore them and don't worry.
Aww, but I do think it's really sweet how this was your first kiss and now you get all flushed whenever you talk to him
If you want to forget about it, then do. If you don't then don't. My best friend met a guy at a party and they got quite erm, close... He obviously didn't want anything more than that, but my friend did so she just kept tyrying to meet him for a while until eventually he agreed. They''ve now been going out for a few months and they're really sweet together!! (+ he's actually THE nicest boyfriend she has ever had... which is wierd considering he didn't even want to know at first..)
so yeh, anyway... my point is, if you want something, just go for it!
you said that people have been spreading rumours and saying things? Why? If someone is spreading rumours about a kiss, then they are obviously really quite sad and have nothing better to do... ignore them, theire social lives obviously consist of talking to the milkman every now and again...
Tbh, I think the only reason why he doesn't want to get to know you is you've waited too long... If nothing is done within a week (!) it just looks like you don't want to do anything...
Omg, sorry I can't get over this... a kiss and suddenly he's a complete man whore and just wants one thing? Come off it... seriously, ignore them and don't worry.
Aww, but I do think it's really sweet how this was your first kiss and now you get all flushed whenever you talk to him
If you want to forget about it, then do. If you don't then don't. My best friend met a guy at a party and they got quite erm, close... He obviously didn't want anything more than that, but my friend did so she just kept tyrying to meet him for a while until eventually he agreed. They''ve now been going out for a few months and they're really sweet together!! (+ he's actually THE nicest boyfriend she has ever had... which is wierd considering he didn't even want to know at first..)
so yeh, anyway... my point is, if you want something, just go for it!
Honey,
I hate to say it but it's just a kiss. It owuld be differnt if it was your virginity I guess. Though I felt like you after my first pash, cos he was so hmm whats the word dominating (maybe?) plus I'd had a few and I was young and yeh. I kept replying it over and over in my mind. But you do eventually move on.
Don't feel used! dont worry about it seriously.
I hate to say it but it's just a kiss. It owuld be differnt if it was your virginity I guess. Though I felt like you after my first pash, cos he was so hmm whats the word dominating (maybe?) plus I'd had a few and I was young and yeh. I kept replying it over and over in my mind. But you do eventually move on.
Don't feel used! dont worry about it seriously.
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I've been feeling down all week because last saturday, at a party, I got a lil intimate with a boy I liked for a while. Neither of us were at all drunk, but I'm very very shy and I just had a drink to relax.
We were together for quite a while, on the dance floor and off. And eventually when we were away from everyone we kissed. I was so dazed and just dreamed away on Sunday. But on Monday, I was all ready to talk to get to know him some more, but suddenly I felt like everyone in my sixth form was watching us. I'd completly forgotten about this side of things.
It hurts me that people I've known for so long will just believe silly rumours about how I've done things with a boy I hardly known. And now, a week later, its gotten to the point where I hate going to school because of this.
I've had an opportunity to talk to him a few times, but, I get so flushed and just can't breathe it feels like!
It was my first kiss, and I don't regret it. But I feel a bit used for some reason. And now people are saying that he just wants one thing - as a result of the grapevine and whats been said. I really don't want to feel like I gave my first kiss to a man whore.
I really want to talk but I'm losing confidence about it more and more everyday. And it feels like I'm the only one out of us two that actually wants to get to know the other! I should be concentrating on my alevels...but I'm just falling for him more and more...
Was this just a Saturday night thing I should forget about?
We were together for quite a while, on the dance floor and off. And eventually when we were away from everyone we kissed. I was so dazed and just dreamed away on Sunday. But on Monday, I was all ready to talk to get to know him some more, but suddenly I felt like everyone in my sixth form was watching us. I'd completly forgotten about this side of things.
It hurts me that people I've known for so long will just believe silly rumours about how I've done things with a boy I hardly known. And now, a week later, its gotten to the point where I hate going to school because of this.
I've had an opportunity to talk to him a few times, but, I get so flushed and just can't breathe it feels like!
It was my first kiss, and I don't regret it. But I feel a bit used for some reason. And now people are saying that he just wants one thing - as a result of the grapevine and whats been said. I really don't want to feel like I gave my first kiss to a man whore.
I really want to talk but I'm losing confidence about it more and more everyday. And it feels like I'm the only one out of us two that actually wants to get to know the other! I should be concentrating on my alevels...but I'm just falling for him more and more...
Was this just a Saturday night thing I should forget about?
i wouldnt worry too much about it, let it be a lesson i suppose , take your time next time you didnt give him your virginity, i wasnt the first person to kiss my misses , i can live with that but i could NOT live with fact that shed already shagged someone else
Every time somone kisses you they steal a bit of your soul. No wonder you feel sad.
Nah it's not wasted
Me and my three friends all had our first kiss with the same person at the same party!
We look back on it now as a kind of bonding experience and laugh even though we were like 'What have we done?' when it first happened.
If you're getting worried about it just think that at least you've had a bit of experience so you won't be worried as much when your next kiss happens
And you will have better kisses so what's the point on dwelling on this one?
Me and my three friends all had our first kiss with the same person at the same party!
We look back on it now as a kind of bonding experience and laugh even though we were like 'What have we done?' when it first happened.
If you're getting worried about it just think that at least you've had a bit of experience so you won't be worried as much when your next kiss happens
And you will have better kisses so what's the point on dwelling on this one?
Hardly anyone has a "perfect" first kiss. It feels like a big deal at the time, but you'll have so many much better, more meaningful kisses throughout the rest of your life that this one will feel insignificant!!
And don't feel used - these things happen at parties. You both got a kiss out of it, he didn't try for anything more so it's all good. Just a bit of fun And that means he isn't "after one thing" as well. Or at least, you can't tell if he is!! Ignore the people who are saying that, they're silly.
Just laugh it off when people tease - people like to have a bit of fun with things like this. With my friends, if someone comes up and dances dirty with one of us in a club or something, we'll all laugh about it for a while... it's not malicious though Just friendly teasing 
Also, if you really like him, try to talk to him. Maybe see if you can go to another party that he's going to! Get in there, girl
And don't feel used - these things happen at parties. You both got a kiss out of it, he didn't try for anything more so it's all good. Just a bit of fun
And that means he isn't "after one thing" as well. Or at least, you can't tell if he is!! Ignore the people who are saying that, they're silly. Just laugh it off when people tease - people like to have a bit of fun with things like this. With my friends, if someone comes up and dances dirty with one of us in a club or something, we'll all laugh about it for a while... it's not malicious though
Just friendly teasing Also, if you really like him, try to talk to him. Maybe see if you can go to another party that he's going to! Get in there, girl
which is wierd considering he didn't even want to know at first..
maybe he was playing hard to get, completely not the same but my ex didn't speak to me for about a year or so, he hated me then we saw each other and got back together was werid, then broke up, now a few months on he is a completely different person and hes great for me, (pointless story i know but hey)
but anyway what would have happened if this "kiss" was taken to something further, what would happen then. I think it would be in the newspapers the amount it sounds like people were talking about it, they have no lives and have to gossip about others lives.,
i think you should act like your not interested at all then you will know if he is!! (its funny winding guys up!)
personally I've decided that I'm not going to count any kisses as my first one till my first one where I've actually fallen for the guy
personally I've decided that I'm not going to count any kisses as my first one till my first one where I've actually fallen for the guy
I don't understand how something some people throw away everyday is this important, people go out and kiss random losers! then people want to save it till they find THE ONE!! i don't get it? sounds stupid, nothing like that has ever been that much of a big deal to me, ive kissed a few guys but hey!! i prob sound really stupid
i don't really remember my 'first' kiss, cos it was like years ago, and i'm still with that girl now, and as far as i'm concerned (or as far as she tells me i am) every kiss with her is as special as a 'first kiss' is supposed to be!
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