Does he fancy me?

This might be a long post so sorry for the essay in advance.

Backstory
Okay, back in April I went through a hard time and I coped by flirting really badly with this guy online(Yeah, I really wasn't in my right mind!) and strangely enough we flirted really badly before he got this gf, at which point I immediately stopped out of respect for her.

Anyway, he broke up with her just before the Summer holidays & we went back to flirting like before but worse. Anyway, I (very impulsively) then asked him out and he said no, which was just as well as I was still acting like a complete psycho.

So then we didn't talk much for a few weeks, and in those few weeks I realised how silly I'd been with all the impulsiveness and selfishness so now I'm going cold turkey. In other words, I tell myself things like "You are not a sex chatline" and "stop chasing after guys you don't even like".

Anyway, since term started we've been talking again and he knows about that whole thing but he keeps making references and innuendos and I'm starting to wonder whether this isn't just his normal flirty self, but him trying to get close to me to ask me out? He just seems to be singling me out more than before... we used to have all kinds of conveys about what makes a girl sexy (I'm Bi so it's easy) and we'd say "oh, she's hot" and whatever but recently he's been focusing more and more on me and complimenting me etc.

what do you think?

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Reply 1

fly4fun

have you ever met him?

Reply 2

LellyJelly

Oh yeah, he's in my year at 6th form

Reply 3

.AJ.

either that or hes missing the attention he used to get from his ex.

id say stay neutral and just go with the flow, unless he asks you out. IMO!

Reply 4

LellyJelly

oo i hope he doesnt

Reply 5

.AJ.

ouch :|

Reply 6

LellyJelly

heh what do you mean ouch?

Reply 7

.AJ.

nothing!! its ur turn to say no this time! :wink:

Reply 8

LellyJelly

heh I like that idea :smile:

Reply 9

PhantomBoggler

i think he fancies you

Reply 10

envious

I guess if he does fancy you then he should ask you out so all this analysis is a bit pointless really. :rolleyes:

If you think he needs a little prompting then I guess you could make it a little easier for him but after the whole saga where he declined to go out with you, do you really think you could cope with it if you hinted strongly and he failed to ask you out (and thus rejected you again)?

Reply 11

Artemidoros.

get a mutual friend to spill the beans

Reply 12

LellyJelly

I don't really trust many of my friends right now - last week one of my most trusted ones spread a bit of a rumour about me.

& I don't like him anymore!