confused

well for a while now ive had feeling for a friend of mine only problem is he is gay.
what makes it worst is when drunk i kinda told him how i felt in a jokey way but we havent spoke about it since.

help getting over him please??
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Reply 1

username136883

Pretend he's your brother. He's already your friend, so it's easy to pretend that's the relationship you have. Once you see him as your sibling, you hopefully won't have feelings for him any more. I had to do that about one of my friends. *shrug* I hope it works for you. It's more of a long-term thing though. I don't have any short-term advice other than 'snap out of it', which isn't super helpful :P