Confused.

CAN I PLEASE JUST SAY TO THE MODS, PLEASE DONT DE-ANON THIS THREAD! I AM ON ANON BECAUSE 3 PEOPLE WHO THE THREAD IS ABOUT USE THIS SITE, AND I DONT WANT THEM TO KNOW IM WRITING THIS!
IF YOU REALLY FEEL IT SHOULD BE ANON THEN PLEASE DELETE THE THREAD, JUST PLEASE DONT DE-ANON!

Okies, this is kind of long but anyway! I started a new college, and everything is different here, including the fact my old friends dont go to this college. Therefore I made some new friends, theres about 6 of us and we all get on really well and none of them are from my old school. There are some girls here from my old school and they're kind of confusing me. Basically they are best friends, well kind of! Some days one of them ditches the other one, and the other one comes and hangs out with us. Its ok but then all she does is bitches about the other girl and how mean she is for ditching her etc. And then the next day, she goes straight back to the girl who ditched her and they're acting all best friends again! FAKE! And then the cycle repeats itself basically every other day and its really annoying me.
Its the fact that okay she seems to want to be friends with the other girl but then why bitch about her to me? And if I tell her how I feel then she will probably go and tell her "Best mate" that I bitched about her etc and the blame will be shifted. Buts its unfair on me, I have my own group and she just keeps coming one today..going the next...coming again...going again and its really irritating me, because I dont wanna hear about her bitching and the next day her going back to her friend and following her around etc!
Thank you so much for any help :smile:

xxx

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

Sorry, in the third line i meant to write "should NOT be anon"

Reply 2

qubog

College is a popularity contest and girls can be horribly bitchy. When she starts bitching just say "I don't really want to listen to you talking badly about your friend". She should get the hint. Just stay away from them and don't let yourself get dragged into it!

Reply 3

HereFishyFishy

And if she's as two-faced about her mate, I bet she's an awful friend. What a user too.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

But Iv kind of already been dragged into it..I didnt realise at first what the girl was going to do so I kind of agreed with her and joined in with the bitching.
I look back and feel really bad about it :frown:

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I guess you are right and I will stay away from her!

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

She is a user, and she obviously used me because she hangs with me only when she has no other friends, and be's all "nice" to me so that she can simply get me to make comments about others.
Grr, i feel so used!