So I fancy this girl...

...thing is, she isn't my girlfriend. Now in situations like this is generally just left to logic to work things out (stay with my girlfriend, much easier) or left to emotions (haven't a clue, there's probably some small significance to me liking her)?

Reply 1

I_am_the_mob

1

How much do you like her?

Reply 2

username47781

20

It is normal to find other girls attractive outside of a relationship as long as you don't act on it.

Are you having problems with your girlfriend? if so I would suggest talking to her.

Reply 3

supernova2

11

Have a ****, if you still fancy her have another ****. If you still fancy her then dump your gf and go out with her.

Reply 4

EvilSheep

supernova2

Have a ****, if you still fancy her have another ****. If you still fancy her then dump your gf and go out with her.

Or not ^^

Just give it some time... Spend time with your girlfriend, and find out if you see a future for the two of you.. If not, let her go and then start worrying about this other girl..

Reply 5

Megatronix

supernova2

Have a ****, if you still fancy her have another ****. If you still fancy her then dump your gf and go out with her.

That's actually quite a good idea. In concept that is...

You need to work out if its pure sexual attraction or you actually genuinly like her. Then you can work from the result of that.

Reply 6

Dizzeee

1

I was in pretty much the same boat a couple of months ago, however i didn't do anything about it. I have now split up with my girlfriend, and this girl that i liked is gone as well...

Reply 7

FireDeuce

14

Before you do anything, make sure you aren't seeing the grass as greener on the other side.
Think about being with her... would it all be as perfect as you think it would be? Or are you taking everything you don't like about your gf and using this girl as a model and imagining her to be what your gf is not.

Reply 8

I_am_the_mob

1

Dboy129

I was in pretty much the same boat a couple of months ago, however i didn't do anything about it. I have now split up with my girlfriend, and this girl that i liked is gone as well...

Awww that's bad :hugs:

Reply 9

Dizzeee

1

If you genuinely feel that you would be better off with this girl, wait a couple of days. If you feel the same then end it with your girlfriend. Because either way, if you have feelings for someone else then your relationship with your girlfriend will break down either way.
heh thanks mob. broke up with my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago so still not quite over it.

Reply 10

I_am_the_mob

1

Dboy129

If you genuinely feel that you would be better off with this girl, wait a couple of days. If you feel the same then end it with your girlfriend. Because either way, if you have feelings for someone else then your relationship with your girlfriend will break down either way.
heh thanks mob. broke up with my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago so still not quite over it.

You will get over it though :smile:

Good luck

I agree, whatever you do don't string people along because that's how people get hurt

Reply 11

steelmole

OP

10

Eldop

Hey rush, didnt know you used TSR!

*sigh* people keep recognising me...

Nah, she lives too far away for it to be practical, so I may as well stay with my girlfriend. To be honest seeing my girlfriend has never been brilliant or perfect, it's been interspersed with a couple of other women already.

So I fancy this girl...

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