One Night Stand- mistake

Hi, in a bit of a problem and need advice from people. Im a male uni student and 2 weeks ago i had a one night stand with someone. I was almost overdrunk and remember very little from the night. We had sex but I remember using protection a fair time after we started. I dont think i had released but Ive heard its possible to get pregnant from pre ejaculation fluid and so this is whats bothering me. I text her the other day to how she was and she said she wasnt going out as she wasnt feeling the best. Am i overreading this into thinking there is a possibility of her being pregnant. I doubt that she may have even thought of that and if she has im not sure she would tell me. I do not actually know this person but have her mobile number from that night. Any advice on what i should do would be much appreciated. Do I just text her what i feel, or meet up with her, or just leave it and see if she says anything? Would be embarresing if i bring it up but its better to do that surely than keep quiet. Cheers guys.

Reply 1

andiroo

There are a lot of people with colds/flu at the moment. If you try talking to her, i think you could tell if she had these.

Maybe txt her saying "How are you? i hope your colds gone".
She may reply saying "yeah my cold is better" in which case maybe you can relax?

Reply 2

username21537

2

If you are seriously worried and bring it up in a suitably mature way then she will reply in the same manner, I would think.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

Ok thanks, i think your right. In person or by text, perhaps i should text her and ask if i could meet up with her. Any oher peoples opinions will be much appreciated! I cant believe i have put myself even in this position.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

I think it would be good if you got in touch with the girl to ask her. I recently had an unprotected one night stand with a guy and would really appreciate if i got a phone call from him...

Reply 5

Tailz

9

Yeh i think you should text her and then maybe ring her? Ask for her email so you can talk online if you dont like phoning?

Reply 6

Seoid

Anonymous

Hi, in a bit of a problem and need advice from people. Im a male uni student and 2 weeks ago i had a one night stand with someone. I was almost overdrunk and remember very little from the night. We had sex but I remember using protection a fair time after we started. I dont think i had released but Ive heard its possible to get pregnant from pre ejaculation fluid and so this is whats bothering me. I text her the other day to how she was and she said she wasnt going out as she wasnt feeling the best. Am i overreading this into thinking there is a possibility of her being pregnant. I doubt that she may have even thought of that and if she has im not sure she would tell me. I do not actually know this person but have her mobile number from that night. Any advice on what i should do would be much appreciated. Do I just text her what i feel, or meet up with her, or just leave it and see if she says anything? Would be embarresing if i bring it up but its better to do that surely than keep quiet. Cheers guys.

Even if she was pregnant it would be unlikely she would be suffering any sickness from it so soon, it's just too early. But good on you for your concern, just let her know that you're around if anything does happen.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks for the advice guys. I will pluck up the courage tomorrow hopefully. I feel it may come as a shock to her, hopefully it will in a way! Its been on my mind now for 2 weeks so need to pluck up the confidence. I think i will text her and ask how she is, then in the next text just tell her that the truth in that im worried about it.

Reply 8

RosiePosiePuddingAndPie

12

I think it's good that you're concerned. I think, although she might be a bit shocked when you ask her, she'll appreciate the thought. I know I would, in her situation. Much better than the guy not calling or anything, and pretending it never happened.

Was it more serious than just sex? You could talk to her more and forge a friendship after showing the initial concern... more friends is always a good thing :smile:

One Night Stand- mistake

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