Too chilled out? Bad thing in a relationship

I am a 23 year old virgin and never done anything with a girl

Now, I am going gym 7 days a week, and its pretty cool and fun

If I do get a gf in the future, which I don't know when or if it will happen, she can do whatever she likes, whenever she likes

I am not at all bothered about girls on the outside, but inside, I really want a gf

I like to do well in life and save money

I really don't care about girls

Any advise?

Reply 1

Unregistered

What? That was massively confusing...

The only comment I have to make is that you should maybe take two days off per week from gymming as your body needs to rest and uses this period to gain strength/muscle mass etc..

Reply 2

Meep!

Er... what?

Just a little thing, but a lot of girls don't tend to be interested in guys who say things like-

anonymous

I really don't care about girls

Reply 3

supernova2

I think just being plain weird is probably stopping a potential relationship

Reply 4

Meep!

supernova2

I think just being plain weird is probably stopping a potential relationship

See, I was just too nice to say that :p:

I have to say, the idea of a 7 days a week gym freak is a little unattractive to me.

Reply 5

jumpinglunch

Anonymous

Now, I am going gym 7 days a week, and its pretty cool and fun

I am not at all bothered about girls on the outside, but inside, I really want a gf

Any advise?

7 days a week at the gym and you want a girlfriend on the 'inside',are you in prison by chance?

Reply 6

Music Is My Boyfriend

Are you in the gym right NOW!?!

Reply 7

lil_luc

yea you should never say you don't care about a girl hence why you probably have never had a potential one.. and as for the gym MOST girls dont like too mussly men well in my opinion anyways

Reply 8

Dhampir

Anonymous

inside, I really want a gf

...

I really don't care about girls

Wha...???? make up your mind!

Reply 9

h82think

OP: As a woman, your post scares me. Honestly you don't sound human. Being perfect is not everything!

Reply 10

pumpkin7

i wish i went to the gym more.

and no one is perfect. no where, no how.

Reply 11

Jayjayjay

It is okay not to feel romantically inclined towards girls. Maybe something within you does not feel ready for a relationship. Perhaps you are not interested now but you should still keep you options open.

As aforementioned it would be unwise to make such a sweeping statement concerning your feelings or inform potential dates of that. Not that it is wrong to feel unsure. It can give the wrong impression.

=o)

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

23 year old guy virgin that has never done anything with a girl

Going gym 7 days week, which is cool and fun

On the inside, I really want a GF, on the outside, my body language shows that I am not interested

If I have a GF, she can do whatever she likes, whenever she likes, I really don't care. I know that most relationship don't last that long, as you go older, or maybe they do.

I have no idea if I'll have a GF, maybe I'll never have one, or maybe I will in 2-3 years time

advise

Reply 13

Reue

Change your body language?

Reply 14

jumpinglunch

You posted this yesterday at around the same time.
I've figured it out,your a Robot.No human goes to the gym 7times a week.

Reply 15

Profesh

In that case, you'll want an open relationship. Or perhaps just a succession of one-night stands.

Reply 16

h82think

I've said it once, and I'll say it again: "You don't have to be perfect!"

Reply 17

Ink

I don't really get the question.

If you want a gf, you're going to have to show interest in somebody.

If you have a gf, who's to say how you would act? We often surprise ourselves with how we act/react to situations involving people we care about.

Reply 18

yellow96

Anonymous

Going gym 7 days week, which is cool and fun

Sexually frustrated much? Get yourself a bird.

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