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Friend Advice Needed...
Okay, so a while ago I posted about whether or not a friend of mine might like me... He flirts outrageously and is super nice and thoughtful. Amongst the things he has said to me are things like "I think your new haircut is hot. I'd so do you. Not that I wouldn't have before." and "I was looking down your shirt, sorry, what were you saying?" and "I can't concentrate around you, you're too pretty." He has gotten me medicine when I was feeling ill, and has listened to me, as well as taken me out for dinner when I've been upset.
The thing is that he's sleeping with another mutual friend, according to all accounts and their actions... Even her significant other seems to think something is up. That's besides the point though. People have said that he and I are their dream couple and all of that kind of stuff. They seem to think that don't know about them, and I tend to be their third wheel, and I feel like they invite me places so that they can say that I was there to keep from getting into trouble.
I guess I just need advice on whether or not to tell them that I know about them... I have a terrible feeling that he's going to get hurt, and I don't know what to do, or if it's just that I like him as more than a friend and maybe I'm trying to give myself a reason to say something?
Blah. Sorry this was so long and such a ramble... What would anyone else do in my situation?
Thanks so much!
The thing is that he's sleeping with another mutual friend, according to all accounts and their actions... Even her significant other seems to think something is up. That's besides the point though. People have said that he and I are their dream couple and all of that kind of stuff. They seem to think that don't know about them, and I tend to be their third wheel, and I feel like they invite me places so that they can say that I was there to keep from getting into trouble.
I guess I just need advice on whether or not to tell them that I know about them... I have a terrible feeling that he's going to get hurt, and I don't know what to do, or if it's just that I like him as more than a friend and maybe I'm trying to give myself a reason to say something?
Blah. Sorry this was so long and such a ramble... What would anyone else do in my situation?
Thanks so much!
Reply 1
I am confused sorry!
He likes you (you think) you like him... what's all this other malarky?
He likes you (you think) you like him... what's all this other malarky?
Reply 2
Er.. well, you probably ought to find out if he is sleeping with her, then. Although he sounds like a bit of a dweeb to me -"I was looking down your shirt, sorry, what were you saying?" -this impresses you?
Reply 3
12
He sounds like a sleaze tbh
Reply 4
I agree
But I still don't understand the post. I must be stoopid!
But I still don't understand the post. I must be stoopid!
Reply 5
I_am_the_mob
I agree
But I still don't understand the post. I must be stoopid!
But I still don't understand the post. I must be stoopid!
I *think* she's saying that she wants to sleep with the sleazebag, but thinks her friend is sleeping with him, and therefore she isn't sure what to do.
Reply 6
Meep!
I *think* she's saying that she wants to sleep with the sleazebag, but thinks her friend is sleeping with him, and therefore she isn't sure what to do.
Well then he is doubley a sleazebag
Reply 7
Yes, my post makes no sense and is a lot of rambling. I guess what it's supposed to say is he pays attention to me but is a sleazebag and I don't know what to do.
And unfortunately, as much of a jerk he is and I know that he is one, I still like him...
Blah.
And unfortunately, as much of a jerk he is and I know that he is one, I still like him...
Blah.
Reply 8
perdedora
Yes, my post makes no sense and is a lot of rambling. I guess what it's supposed to say is he pays attention to me but is a sleazebag and I don't know what to do.
And unfortunately, as much of a jerk he is and I know that he is one, I still like him...
Blah.
And unfortunately, as much of a jerk he is and I know that he is one, I still like him...
Blah.
Now THAT I can understand. If you are willing to take the risk you can go for it... but personally I would be careful
Reply 9
12
perdedora
Yes, my post makes no sense and is a lot of rambling. I guess what it's supposed to say is he pays attention to me but is a sleazebag and I don't know what to do.
And unfortunately, as much of a jerk he is and I know that he is one, I still like him...
Blah.
And unfortunately, as much of a jerk he is and I know that he is one, I still like him...
Blah.
He sounds like Daniel Cleaver!! Fit but ****
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