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She would be a really cool person to be friends with...but....
She would be a really cool person to be friends with...but....i kinda messed around with her and now she thinks i don't wanna know her.
I do want to know her but not in the way she wants.....
advice?
I do want to know her but not in the way she wants.....
advice?
Reply 1
What do you mean by 'messed around'...............
Reply 2
Tell her that.
I've been that girl before.
All she wants is to know where she stands.
Worst that happens is she moves on - you won't have lost anything.
I've been that girl before.
All she wants is to know where she stands.
Worst that happens is she moves on - you won't have lost anything.
Reply 3
Yeah i agree with above, tell her. She'll respect your honesty
Reply 4
icantthinkofacoolusername
Tell her that.
I've been that girl before.
All she wants is to know where she stands.
Worst that happens is she moves on - you won't have lost anything.
I've been that girl before.
All she wants is to know where she stands.
Worst that happens is she moves on - you won't have lost anything.
I may loose a friendship and i want to be friends with her
Reply 5
tesh^^
What do you mean by 'messed around'...............
everything but sex...
Reply 6
Anonymous
I may loose a friendship and i want to be friends with her
But you're not her friend right now. So you quite literally have nothing to lose.
Reply 7
generalebriety
But you're not her friend right now. So you quite literally have nothing to lose.
If i say that i may 'loose a friendship' surely it means i am curenttly her friend....but not for much longer?!
Reply 8
Anonymous
I may loose a friendship and i want to be friends with her
Well yeah, but what sort of friendship have you got at the moment?
Reply 9
Anonymous
everything but sex...
Did you make it clear to her at the time that it wasn't going to lead to anything in the end?
I agree with the other person, you have to tell her exactly how you feel, it is so confusing to not know where you stand with someone! She may be hurt at first because of the intimacy you shared previously, but if she cares about your friendship as much as you seem to do I'm sure it'll work out!
Good luck.
Reply 10
Anonymous
If i say that i may 'loose a friendship' surely it means i am curenttly her friend....but not for much longer?!
But are you her friend?
If you were her friend, this thread would serve no purpose. I'm sure you're not in the habit of creating pointless threads for no reason about how cool it would be to be friends with someone you're already friends with, so I think we can safely assume you're not her friend.
Reply 11
generalebriety
But are you her friend?
If you were her friend, this thread would serve no purpose. I'm sure you're not in the habit of creating pointless threads for no reason about how cool it would be to be friends with someone you're already friends with, so I think we can safely assume you're not her friend.
If you were her friend, this thread would serve no purpose. I'm sure you're not in the habit of creating pointless threads for no reason about how cool it would be to be friends with someone you're already friends with, so I think we can safely assume you're not her friend.
Not really...I am her friend, but i fear i'm loosing her, and ideally. i would like to be friends with her
Reply 12
Then stop doing whatever it is you think is causing you to lose her, i.e. messing her around and not showing her you want to know her. Problem solved? 
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