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Bit of a weird situation!
Ok this is my first post so go easy on me?! 
Can u give me some advice please?
So I have been with my boyfriend (?) for a long time now and things were going really well until he started uni, he made no time to speak to me and has basically been a bit of an idiot about it all. I mean i don't expect him to be in touch constantly but this was getting ridiculous. The thing is though i tried to be reasonable and just explain to him how i felt but he had a huge go at me and as a result we are "on a break".
I think that is pointless u should either e together or not. He is giving me such mixed signals now and i'm so confused! HELP?
Thankyou x
Can u give me some advice please? So I have been with my boyfriend (?) for a long time now and things were going really well until he started uni, he made no time to speak to me and has basically been a bit of an idiot about it all. I mean i don't expect him to be in touch constantly but this was getting ridiculous. The thing is though i tried to be reasonable and just explain to him how i felt but he had a huge go at me and as a result we are "on a break".
I think that is pointless u should either e together or not. He is giving me such mixed signals now and i'm so confused! HELP?
Thankyou x
Ignore him.
Don't make any effort whatsoever with him.
He'll come back.
And if he doesn't you're better off without him.
Don't make any effort whatsoever with him.
He'll come back.
And if he doesn't you're better off without him.
You think so? Ok i'll give it a go
Yeah, sounds like he's been sucked into the whole Fresher's thing. Partying, drinking, and now he's started a new course, really exciting time. I know when i first started I totally forgot to text home or anything.
But blowing up at you just for telling him you feel he needs to get in touch more is a bit much. I agree with above, let him come to you. And if he doesn't, well then he wasnt that great to begin with - i know its hard, long term relationship, but if it happens then he cant have thought much of it to throw it away like that. But keep optimistic he'll run back to you once he's settled in.
But blowing up at you just for telling him you feel he needs to get in touch more is a bit much. I agree with above, let him come to you. And if he doesn't, well then he wasnt that great to begin with - i know its hard, long term relationship, but if it happens then he cant have thought much of it to throw it away like that. But keep optimistic
he'll run back to you once he's settled in.
Maybe he's finding you a bit too clingy, hehe. Let the guy concentrate on uni.
Or maybe he has found someone else.
Or maybe he has found someone else.
I'm really not the "clinging" type!
Talk things over. If he had a go at you and you were trying to explain how you feel then that's not on, he should listen to what you have to say. Try out ''being on a break'' for a bit and if you drift further apart then maybe it's best to let him go.
While you are on break, find other potential boyfriends. I bet he's already cheated on you.
maybe he has, maybe he hasn't. Maybe u judge by your own standards???
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