Right, I know this is a bit of a crude post, but there we go.
I'm a 19 year old gay guy, and I've been with a few guys, but only ever had sex with three of them. I find it really difficult and awkward, and quite unenjoyable. [just to clarify I'm talking about when receiving]
First of all it always seems so hard to get the guys penis into me, requiring so much lube and effort, and when he does, it never seems to stay. It always seems to fall out with the slightest movement, which is obviously annoying for the other guy, as well as me.
I can only really have sex for a minute or two without then having to carry on with other stuff. I want to be able to have sex regularly and for it to work, and I want the other guy to enjoy himself too so it just annoys me. Does it get easier? Do I just need more practise?
I also still find it pretty painful, and tend to loose my erection (I'm guessing due to the pain). Does it become less painful over time?
Also just a question to gay guys; if you're with a guy do you usually/always have intercourse with them? Or would you mostly just do everything else and not have intercourse? Sometimes I feel like I can get on fine without having actual intercourse, but feel like I'm missing out on something, or depriving the guy of intercourse if he really wants it.