Is it possible to be this unlucky in love?Watch
Few months after that, I met a guy who I liked but just wanted sex and said I was attractive ,cool, funny etc. but he didn't feel a connection.
A few months ago, exactly the same thing but dragged on longer; the guy said he was very attracted to me and wanted to be fwb but he couldn't see a relationship working as I was too quiet and more into him than vice versa and again he 'hadn't felt the connection.'
Believe it or not, this happened two more times (though I didn't sleep with them, I realised pretty quickly they only wanted one thing)
Went on a few dates, one the guy was again clearly just looking for sex. The other guy I didn't feel a connection with and he seemed to look down his nose a bit at my family so I didn't feel like seeing him again.
Just now, been talking to a guy and met up a few times (as friends) suggested a date but he's just told me he only likes me as a friend.
I have tried online dating but it just really wasn't for me. Just couldn't be doing with the sexually explicit messages and messages that had clearly been copied and pasted to many girls.
I just never thought it would be so difficult. These guys I've mentioned in the past I've said i'm 'hot, pretty, great figure etc.' And I've been told I'm 'really nice, funny ,intelligent, everything to please'.
I've got a good education, hobbies, and I like to think I can have a reasonably intelligent conversation. These said guys told me they really enjoyed our conversation too and liked spending time with me and found me interesting.
Maybe I come on too strong.. With this latest guy I definitely hinted I was interested ,but he had been giving me signs too. I'm not into playing games and I'm rubbish at getting hard to get anyway.
I've got flaws; I know I lack confidence, I'm a little quiet, I'm sensitive, but everybody has flaws and I feel like some guys just want perfection.
I'm always friendzoned and I'm just losing confidence all the time.. I never thought dating would be so difficult.
Sorry for the long post, I'm just really fed-up. Does anybody have any advice at all, or feel the same? Thanks a lot
I just think it must be my fault I maybe come on a little too strongly, but I don't know how to find the balance between showing interest and playing it cool, it's so bloody difficult lol..
I've made some bad choices in the past with regard to men, but this one for instance didn't seem that sort of all.
I just feel like giving up lol.. but thanks