help!confused!

OP

lord, i'm so shy i don't think i'l ever be able to make the first move...i'm just too scared of the consequences...not much of a risk taker :s-smilie:

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OP

blackswan

hehe u sound like me.
so close yet so far, might have to just say hi oneday.... eek

tell me about it!! it's just so nerve racking...

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Anonymous

tell me about it!! it's just so nerve racking...

hehe i know and where they're RIGHT THERE it's like arggh!
you wanna say something but what?!
its crazy :p:

im with you on this

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username47781

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Well if you don't try how will you ever know and you will be wondering what if?

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OP

blackswan

hehe i know and where they're RIGHT THERE it's like arggh!
you wanna say something but what?!
its crazy :p:

im with you on this

awfully frustrating!! boys!!! arghhh

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Rock Fan

Well if you don't try how will you ever know and you will be wondering what if?

i know i know...but i don't think i'll ever be able to pluck up the courage to do it... somehow he's better than all the guys i've liked before... it's a little intimidating... i know i'm not talking sense...m confused... :frown:

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Well if i'm ever in this situation i search for them on myspace/facebook/bebo and get them on msn. Breaks the ice without breaking a sweat :smile:

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Seanisonfire

Well if i'm ever in this situation i search for them on myspace/facebook/bebo and get them on msn. Breaks the ice without breaking a sweat :smile:

no offence, but doesn't that seem a little stalker-ish?

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Anonymous

no offence, but doesn't that seem a little stalker-ish?

About as stalkerish as staring at them all the time and watching them while they talk to other people.

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Seanisonfire

About as stalkerish as staring at them all the time and watching them while they talk to other people.

ya i thought that would touch a nerve... anyway... it's not like i follow him around college or something!! neither does he...looking at other people....'tis called normal human behaviour...
as i said...no offence!

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Anonymous

ya i thought that would touch a nerve... anyway... it's not like i follow him around college or something!! neither does he...looking at other people....'tis called normal human behaviour...
as i said...no offence!

its ok. I dont really mind. But its helped me a lot in the past. And there are an insane amount of people that use social networking sites just to spy on people. Its practically what their there for nowadays.

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Seanisonfire

its ok. I dont really mind. But its helped me a lot in the past. And there are an insane amount of people that use social networking sites just to spy on people. Its practically what their there for nowadays.

interesting! might keep it as a back up plan in the future... :biggrin:

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OP

hey u guys! thank u for all your help...i'm going to try talking to him tomorrow...God help me! :biggrin:

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yellow96

Tell you what you could do if you're happy to be a little weird about it: you could get a slightly battered looking wallet (belonging to a brother or friend etc), slip like 30p in there so it looks realistic, and on the bus tap him on the shoulder and say you just spotted it on the floor, and is it his. I suppose if he takes it, it gives you a pretty good insight into who he is, but either way it gets you both talking. Admittedly that's a bit far to go just to talk to someone, but I like playing games.

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Anonymous

hey u guys! thank u for all your help...i'm going to try talking to him tomorrow...God help me! :biggrin:

Good luck! Just imagine if someone just started talking to you. Would you tell them to go away? Not likely. So dont go in thinking that he might tell you to **** off :smile:

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