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I'm stuck between a relationship + non-relationship kind of relationship :S
I'm sorry if the title is a mess...
I'm in love with a guy, he LIKES me very much too. I choose LIKES because he told me that he wasnt sure if he LOVES me like that way i feel. We're both studying at different uni, and we're far far away from each other. That's the reason we (or maybe just him) wouldn't call each other bf/gf because we cant be together. When people ask if we have any bf/gf we'll say no, but well explain that we have someone special.
So i am stuck in between having a REAL relationship (when we call eachother bf/gf) and not having one (just friends).
Also the worse thing is that he's erasmus student, so he'll be going back home (other country) in few months time. I will see him before he goes back for christmas, but after that....that's another reason we wouldnt call it a proper relationship.
Both of us are partially commited to each other. For me, i see no one els other than him. I'm not quite sure what he thinks. When i asked him about these, he always tell me to enjoy while it last, dont worry too much, or we'll see cus we don't know what is going to happen in future. he told me that if he could be near me, we has no doubt that we'll be together.
I really LOVE him, and i never felt like this to my ex at all. I'm upset by that fact that i might not see him anymore in my life after this last meeting in Dec...
Should i let my feeling for him to go, and get on with my loveless life?
I feel like i cant love anyone anymore.
I'm in love with a guy, he LIKES me very much too. I choose LIKES because he told me that he wasnt sure if he LOVES me like that way i feel. We're both studying at different uni, and we're far far away from each other. That's the reason we (or maybe just him) wouldn't call each other bf/gf because we cant be together. When people ask if we have any bf/gf we'll say no, but well explain that we have someone special.
So i am stuck in between having a REAL relationship (when we call eachother bf/gf) and not having one (just friends).
Also the worse thing is that he's erasmus student, so he'll be going back home (other country) in few months time. I will see him before he goes back for christmas, but after that....that's another reason we wouldnt call it a proper relationship.
Both of us are partially commited to each other. For me, i see no one els other than him. I'm not quite sure what he thinks. When i asked him about these, he always tell me to enjoy while it last, dont worry too much, or we'll see cus we don't know what is going to happen in future. he told me that if he could be near me, we has no doubt that we'll be together.
I really LOVE him, and i never felt like this to my ex at all. I'm upset by that fact that i might not see him anymore in my life after this last meeting in Dec...
Should i let my feeling for him to go, and get on with my loveless life?
I feel like i cant love anyone anymore.
I am very sorry but I have no advice at all
But this post really made me feel truly sorry for you and I wanted to make sure you had at least one reply, even if it's completely useless
How far apart are your separate countries?
But this post really made me feel truly sorry for you and I wanted to make sure you had at least one reply, even if it's completely useless
How far apart are your separate countries?
thanks for the reply, it's really nice
He's spanish studying in manchester now, i'm in scotland north east. that's how far apart we are. I'm flying over to see him. Even if that's the last time i will ever see him, i will be glad in future that i manage to meet him for the on last time. I think am really in love with him because i thought bout him everyday, and i worry bout him if he isnt feeling well, i'l remind him to get medicine, or if he's upset i would wish i could be there to comfort him and so on...
my heart ache when i'm typing up this post. It's a very sad relationship. if it doesnt work, i'll remember it for the rest of my life, i knew i will.
He's spanish studying in manchester now, i'm in scotland north east. that's how far apart we are. I'm flying over to see him. Even if that's the last time i will ever see him, i will be glad in future that i manage to meet him for the on last time. I think am really in love with him because i thought bout him everyday, and i worry bout him if he isnt feeling well, i'l remind him to get medicine, or if he's upset i would wish i could be there to comfort him and so on...
my heart ache when i'm typing up this post. It's a very sad relationship. if it doesnt work, i'll remember it for the rest of my life, i knew i will.
I'm sure you will
It sounds hard but if you never try you will never know
It seems if you love him that much then you don't have a choice but to give it an attempt
I_am_the_mob
I'm sure you will
It sounds hard but if you never try you will never know
It seems if you love him that much then you don't have a choice but to give it an attempt
I'm sure you will
It sounds hard but if you never try you will never know
It seems if you love him that much then you don't have a choice but to give it an attempt
yeah that's why both of us are still trying to keep it, we just chat on msn regularly and make occassional calls. i always cry when he call my name (on the phone)...
We'll have to see how it goes, there's nothing els we can do.
Yeah, I'm in this situation, and the best thing to do is to give it a try. I mean, you can always make a visit to see him on occasion and he seems willing to give it a try: you're half way there. Believe me, if only my situation was like yours. Basically if I went to see him (the distance is literally half the world away), the world and his wife would be against me, I have so many conflicting forces that want me to stay at home and shut up against my will and have a crappy life. Make the most of it because I can't.
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Yeah, I'm in this situation, and the best thing to do is to give it a try. I mean, you can always make a visit to see him on occasion and he seems willing to give it a try: you're half way there. Believe me, if only my situation was like yours. Basically if I went to see him (the distance is literally half the world away), the world and his wife would be against me, I have so many conflicting forces that want me to stay at home and shut up against my will and have a crappy life. Make the most of it because I can't.
sry to hear bout it. But he's got a wife....is that some sort of arranged marriage? It must be heart breaking to know he's with another woman. are u 2 still in touch?
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