The Student Room Group

Yes, another one! Fancying the guy next door!

Please don't de-non me. He and another friend use this site and he knows who I am!

Basically, I really like a guy in the house next door. We're in Uni houses, and my house and his house get on really well and we're always out together and round each other's houses.
I like him, and I think he likes me, although he does go hot and cold sometimes.

I really wanna ask him out, but I'm scared I'll ****** things up, and makes things awkward between us/our houses. Also, I don't know when I'll ever get chance to be alone with him.

Is dating such a good mate a bad idea? We have to live next door to each other until May, and I don't want to jeopardize our friendship.

gah, I wish I wasn't so socially inept
Reply 1
don't just wait for the chance for you to be alone with him to happen; make it happen.

all you can do is talk to him and see what it results in. it could get awkward, he might not like you, you could **** everything up.

then again, there's always the enormous possibility that you have an amazing time together, everything goes swimmingly and your houses bond even more. who knows? (though i'm optimistic in this instance.)
Seize the opportunity and do it!
What is there to lose? If he's a nice guy he'll not be a jerk about it, even if he doesn't want to go out with you.