After the first kiss

What do you do? Me and this guy that iv been flirting with for ages finally got it together at a party last night. It was nothing big, just a kiss goodnight but as were both quite shy it was a bit of a step forward. So what do i do now? I dont want to seem all pushy but i dont not want to talk to him. It now feels more confusing then when we were just flirting!
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Reply 1

*Joanna*

12

Send him a text or a facebook message or something. See if he wants to go for coffee, or if you're shy, maybe the cinema. If you want something to happen, do something to make it happen! I know, easier said than done but there's loads of ways to contact him without having to do the potentially embarrasing face to face thing. Good luck!

Reply 2

randomgirl

14

Text him saying thanks for a good night or something?

Reply 3

stainedglass

1

Send him a text to say you had a good night if you've got his number, or like the above people have said; leave a facebook or myspace comment.

You could suggest meeting up for a drink one night if he texts/comments back.

Reply 4

Cushti

10

Leave it a couple of days then send him a friendly text and take it from there :smile:

Reply 5

andymt

11

*Joanna*

Send him a text or a facebook message or something. See if he wants to go for coffee, or if you're shy, maybe the cinema. If you want something to happen, do something to make it happen! I know, easier said than done but there's loads of ways to contact him without having to do the potentially embarrasing face to face thing. Good luck!

Reply 6

yellow96

15

Text him like everyone else has said. Also arrange to be going out together again soon, maybe to a party or a group gathering (don't actually plan it out with him, just 'happen' to be there) and get yourself another kiss. Then before you say your goodbyes ask if he wants to do something that week.

Reply 7

Profesh

20

Cushti's and Thelfo's advice.

Reply 8

Ang|ophi|e

12

I think its pretty obvious since everyone on this thread is saying the same thing. But also, you can just wait to see what he does. I'm pretty sure he likes you just as you like him. Sooner or later, he'll probabaly ask you out. :smile:

After the first kiss

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