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I'm a 17 year old girl, the last time I had sex I was 15 and it was with my boyfriend. I've been single since then. I used to say I'd only have sex in relationships but I really don't care anymore. I want to have sex but I don't know how to approach it with a guy and I don't want people to think I'm a slut (including the guy/s). What do I do?
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No point asking on TSR, you're just going to get a bandwagon of people saying how it's okay to be promiscuous and how TSR are so judgemental as opposed to actually answering your question.

Now yes, it will be quite slutty of you to just go up to guys and ask for sex when you're 17. Go up to someone, get to know them etc etc and then hit it off.
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No point asking on TSR, you're just going to get a bandwagon of people saying how it's okay to be promiscuous and how TSR are so judgemental as opposed to actually answering your question.

Now yes, it will be quite slutty of you to just go up to guys and ask for sex when you're 17. Go up to someone, get to know them etc etc and then hit it off.
I don't want to ASK them for sex, I want it to naturally lead to that.
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I don't want to ASK them for sex, I want it to naturally lead to that.
Yes, as i've said that's the way. But people are still going to call you a sket cos only skets move like that.
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Here on TSR, we don't know what sex is :tf:
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Do what you want
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Yea well I wouldn't go too far but if you get to emotional about having boyfriends that's too weird. Other people get nosy on other people they'll be worse off for being nosy it's a bit nasty mentioning things to other people because they're maybe taking advantage of the situation. You should - as above - do what you want. If anyone says anything you can actually report them for harassing you.
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come to mine, i'll solve your problem
but seriously- get a boyfriend or something, even if that's just for a couple of weeks (very nice ones though)
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How are you gonna choose the guy in a club or pub or at school which guys are you gonna go for? Just start talking to a guy or flirt with him. If you don't want to be considered a hoe just limit the amount of guys or try and spread them out so that they are not in your friend circle or at school etc.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a 17 year old girl, the last time I had sex I was 15 and it was with my boyfriend. I've been single since then. I used to say I'd only have sex in relationships but I really don't care anymore. I want to have sex but I don't know how to approach it with a guy and I don't want people to think I'm a slut (including the guy/s). What do I do?
Find a bf alternatively find someone that doesnt go to your school, then people at school wont think anything as they wont know. Also dont publicise it on social media. It should be easy for you to get sex, just be sue to use protection and vet the other person a bit so you are secure in who you are sleeping with, some people are not nice.

Imo just treat it as though its normal and dont make a big fuss, dont worry about what other people think or what you think they think.

When you leave for uni then school will be left behind and also there will be plenty of opportunities there.
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If anyone says anything you can actually report them for harassing you.
No you can't.
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Go to a party and you will get laid in no time
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Look on tinder lmao
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(Original post by karl pilkington)
How are you gonna choose the guy in a club or pub or at school which guys are you gonna go for? Just start talking to a guy or flirt with him. If you don't want to be considered a hoe just limit the amount of guys or try and spread them out so that they are not in your friend circle or at school etc.
Yeah I definitely want a boy who doesn't go to my school, but the issue is that I don't know many boys who don't go to my school on a close level.
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(Original post by 999tigger)
Find a bf alternatively find someone that doesnt go to your school, then people at school wont think anything as they wont know. Also dont publicise it on social media. It should be easy for you to get sex, just be sue to use protection and vet the other person a bit so you are secure in who you are sleeping with, some people are not nice.

Imo just treat it as though its normal and dont make a big fuss, dont worry about what other people think or what you think they think.

When you leave for uni then school will be left behind and also there will be plenty of opportunities there.
Yeah, I definitely don't want to tell a lot of people. Just my close friends. I definitely don't want a boy who goes to my school as there aren't any I want to have sex with. The issue is I'm not really close with any boys who don't go to my school.
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Go to a party and you will get laid in no time
Yeah I guess but that's too public, well not public but everyone will definitely know about that.
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Yeah I definitely want a boy who doesn't go to my school, but the issue is that I don't know many boys who don't go to my school on a close level.
What kind of guy do you actually want a tall one who is the same age. You will have to try and make friends with more people outside of school.
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Do what you want.
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What kind of guy do you actually want a tall one who is the same age. You will have to try and make friends with more people outside of school.
She wants you, Karl.
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What kind of guy do you actually want a tall one who is the same age. You will have to try and make friends with more people outside of school.
All the parties I go to aren't my school parties because no one at my school really does that. So I see boys from other schools at every single party I go to but I'm not close enough to message them or anything. I get off with boys at parties sometimes but I never do more than kissing so this summer I think I'll just let it go further.
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