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Creepy Ex-boyfriend!
O.K. I need help in my plight.
I'm 16 and I was going out with this boy for about 2 months and we never even kissed so I wouldn't say it got serious at all.The main problem is, is that we both go to the same boarding school and he's in some of my classes so I have to see him quite a lot of the time. It was quite sweet over the summer but then he began to get quite creepy once we got back to school in september ( following me around, coming to my window at night and other things like that which were mainly annoying but also had a hint of strangeness to them like getting annoyed at me for not eating breakfast with him.) so I broke it off. he was really upset and we didn't talk for about 2 weeks though many emails were sent by him, quite mean emails. He gave me the gifts I got him back, even the t-shirt I made him and said he never wanted to speak to me again. I was O.K with this since I expected it though it did hurt a little.
Now, he's started writing poetry, quite harsh poetry in latin and showing it to my Latin teachers. He's sent emails to my friends asking them to help win me back for him and one to my sister asking her to go through my stuff for him. He even shaved his head in anger because I said once that long hair suited him and according to my friend tried to send some of it to me (!)
I need some help of what to do. I made it quite plain that the ball was in his court and I would accept him being angry at me but this is far too far.
What can I do to make him realise that he needs to leave me alone
I'm 16 and I was going out with this boy for about 2 months and we never even kissed so I wouldn't say it got serious at all.The main problem is, is that we both go to the same boarding school and he's in some of my classes so I have to see him quite a lot of the time. It was quite sweet over the summer but then he began to get quite creepy once we got back to school in september ( following me around, coming to my window at night and other things like that which were mainly annoying but also had a hint of strangeness to them like getting annoyed at me for not eating breakfast with him.) so I broke it off. he was really upset and we didn't talk for about 2 weeks though many emails were sent by him, quite mean emails. He gave me the gifts I got him back, even the t-shirt I made him and said he never wanted to speak to me again. I was O.K with this since I expected it though it did hurt a little.
Now, he's started writing poetry, quite harsh poetry in latin and showing it to my Latin teachers. He's sent emails to my friends asking them to help win me back for him and one to my sister asking her to go through my stuff for him. He even shaved his head in anger because I said once that long hair suited him and according to my friend tried to send some of it to me (!)
I need some help of what to do. I made it quite plain that the ball was in his court and I would accept him being angry at me but this is far too far.
What can I do to make him realise that he needs to leave me alone
Firstly try telling him to leave you alone, if he continues to harrass you then you need to report him for it.
Oh my god. I can't believe how weird some people are lol
Well, I think you have to find an occasion where he's alone and just have a civilized conversation with him underlining the fact that he has to leave you alone otherwise you will take matters to another level.
Try that and see what happens. If it persists, consult a teacher or someone higher up in your school. The guy needs therapy.
Well, I think you have to find an occasion where he's alone and just have a civilized conversation with him underlining the fact that he has to leave you alone otherwise you will take matters to another level.
Try that and see what happens. If it persists, consult a teacher or someone higher up in your school. The guy needs therapy.
I've tried to talk to him in a civilised manner many times, it's not like there's never the time to do it and I've asked him to please stop because it's not only embarrassing him but embarrassing myself. He was close to climbing up the side of my boarding house and putting stuff through my window. thankfully he stopped that plan.
The problem is, every time he says that he has given up. He always does something like this again.
The problem is, every time he says that he has given up. He always does something like this again.
ninehandedfudgecake
I've tried to talk to him in a civilised manner many times, it's not like there's never the time to do it and I've asked him to please stop because it's not only embarrassing him but embarrassing myself. He was close to climbing up the side of my boarding house and putting stuff through my window. thankfully he stopped that plan.
The problem is, every time he says that he has given up. He always does something like this again.
The problem is, every time he says that he has given up. He always does something like this again.
You talked to a teacher etc ? It may deter what he's doing if he is aware members of staff are wary of what he's doing. Also it sounds like he may need some sort of help/counselling as what he's doing doesn't sound at all normal.
Hahahaha what a loser.
he's well emo
Sounds like that movie where the guy only wanted the girl for sex and she denied him it, then he tried to kill her and her family,and every guy he believed was her new boyfriend, the reason she broke up with him.
This guy sounds dangerous. Don't walk alone in the nights or he might try to kidnap you.
This guy sounds dangerous. Don't walk alone in the nights or he might try to kidnap you.
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