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Girlfriend trouble

Hello, I am 16 year old boy in the first year of 6th form
I really feel the need to be in a relationship right now, but I can't seem to find the right girl
I am in a friends group where many of my freinds are in relationships and I feel rather lonely
I am interested in a girl in my friends group, but I think she is out of my league. I am rather shy and not dominant when talking between friends but am able to talk in private. I am not really extremely close to anyone who I can openly share feelings with. What can I do?
Reply 1
Why do you feel the need to be in a relationship?
If you can't find the right girl, then wait because there's no point going out with something who isn't right for you!
Reply 2
Firstly, the league system is a load of bull! Find out what this girl is into, then talk to her about it!
I agree this whole crap about league's is bull. You are only 16 so don't worry you have got so much time to get into a relationship, I'm 25 and single so there you go.

You shouldn't just go for a girl just for the sake of being in a relationship.

I think if you were to stop looking so hard, you might end up finding someone.
Its not bull, there are a lot of girls out there who know they're pretty and think they're too good for some people. Although those sort of people aren't worth it anyway with a personality like that.

I wouldn't worry about it mate, you'll meet someone and know they're right for you. I could kind of relate to what you are saying and things have turned out ok for me so just stick at it, don't worry, remain patient and try not to look for it.. it usually finds you.
Reply 5
Rock Fan
I think if you were to stop looking so hard, you might end up finding someone.


Worked for me
Reply 6
Rock Fan
I think if you were to stop looking so hard, you might end up finding someone.


I don't believe this stuff for a second (warning, i might be a bit of cynic). I think you need to work at it and practice if you wanna be someone. Be warned though, you'll probably be disappointed.

This is basically what I did, I worked at it, found out what worked with the opposite sex and all that. Got some girl and got it all out of my system, now I can focus on more important things.