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need advice

Yesterday I met this girl at a club, she was sitting with her mate in the corner just silently so I went upto her and we were talking for a good 5 minutes which is quite long clubbing wise, then she gave me her number and left because the club was closing. however as she was leaving she saw me go upto my mates all hypered telling them how I hooked up with this really fit bird and got her number and everything - i didnt realise she was looking obviously but shes one of those quite types i'd say.

anyway, what do you lot reckon I should do, if i text her wat should i right?
Reply 1
Yeah, why not? What's the worst that could happen?
Course, just give her a text - you've only met her once, she's not going to break your heart. :smile:
Reply 3
jakeee
Yesterday I met this girl at a club, she was sitting with her mate in the corner just silently so I went upto her and we were talking for a good 5 minutes which is quite long clubbing wise, then she gave me her number and left because the club was closing. however as she was leaving she saw me go upto my mates all hypered telling them how I hooked up with this really fit bird and got her number and everything - i didnt realise she was looking obviously but shes one of those quite types i'd say.

anyway, what do you lot reckon I should do, if i text her wat should i right?

You hardly "hooked up" with her, you spoke to her. Chances are, the number is not real and she just gave it to get rid of you. Now, come back to earth, wait until tomorrow and text her "hi, good night on Saturday?"
Reply 4
Nessyfencer
You hardly "hooked up" with her, you spoke to her. Chances are, the number is not real and she just gave it to get rid of you. Now, come back to earth, wait until tomorrow and text her "hi, good night on Saturday?"


dude the numbers real, she took my number and then rang it.
Reply 5
jakeee
dude the numbers real, she took my number and then rang it.

Well either way, you are still way to exited about this, and if she did notice that, then you probably turned her off big time. I mean, who gets excited cause you spoke to someone? You need to calm down and take the attitude "if I speak to her again, ace" or else you will come across as way to clingy and turn her off, or get hurt by being obsessed with a girl you don't even know.
Reply 6
Hooked up? :biggrin:
YEah you hardly hooked up with her, but suppose give her a text and see what happens.