Ok firstly im male and first year at uni. I know this thread prolly have been posted many many times before, but its just something I have to get outa my chest. So please bear with me, thank you.
Basically Im not living at halls, and its been 3 weeks since uni started. I went to one fresher's event, which was clubbing, the people I went with... well I don't talk to them much anymore. I've met a few good people. This one guy who is living in halls, and I sit next to him in lectures sometimes, hes really friendly, he even asked me to go clubbing with him and his friends few days ago, but I couldn't because I lived too far away and had to work the next day. This guy has a few friends on my course, they all live in halls and live in the same hall I think. When I tag along with them during lunch or something, I feel like Im an outsider, not because Im new to the 'group', its because when they talk about 'so and so did that thing in the hall last night and it was hilarious'... I wont have a clue to what they're on.
Im not exactely a club person, mainly because I haven't been clubbing alot, but I really prefer going to gym, do a sport, or just socialise in the pub. I feel like I haven't got friends lol. Because outside of uni I don't really contact with any of the people from uni.
Anyways my rant is over, if any1 can give me any advice on what I should do or think is welcome, if you want to flame me - go for it lol because I know I'm pathetic atm!
Thanks for reading this boring post!