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Rubbish at kissing!!!

This is going to sound really stupid, but I can't kiss. I sort of just stand there while my girlfriend does all the work. I don't even get the basic mechanics of it... :frown:

Anybody got any tips?

Cheers :smile:

Reply 1

hanns.g

get drunk. might help.

Reply 2

randomgirl

14

Just kiss on the lips, then open your mouth slightly. Use a bit of tongue. Follow your girlfriends lead. I'm sure you aren't as bad as you are making out!

Reply 3

punktopia

3

Open your mouth really wide, stick your tongue out and try to bite hers.

Reply 4

yellow96

15

hanns.g

get drunk. might help.

Agreed. Also, use your hands. Run them through her hair, put them on her waist, pull her towards you etc. If you're not that good with your lips, you'll have to rely on the rest of your body to get the message across.

Reply 5

minimo

15

randomgirl

Just kiss on the lips, then open your mouth slightly. Use a bit of tongue. Follow your girlfriends lead. I'm sure you aren't as bad as you are making out!

Reply 6

Thud

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punktopia

Open your mouth really wide, stick your tongue out and try to bite hers.

Yeah if you're a moron, everyone knows you're meant to try and bite their teeth.

Reply 7

Meep!

9

Copy what she does! Really, try copying what she does, and do it back to her. Also, hands are important; keep them busy- stroking her hair, her back, things like that...

Reply 8

StrangerthanEleven

12

Practice practice practice :wink:

Reply 9

tristanperry

hayles101

Practice practice practice :wink:

That's pretty much true though - hopefully you'll get the hang of things soon enough. Just see what she does, and then try it yourself. If all else fails, pretend your tongue is a washing machine (joking :p:

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Reply 10

*Katie*

1

I think I'm a pretty crappy kisser too, unless I actually fancy the person, in which case I never notice because it's *amazing*. You're not alone.
I think I've gotten marginally better with practice, so I would say don't worry about it, and just keep kissing. Not sure how you want TSR to help with that, though...

Reply 11

joe456

OP

*Katie*

I think I'm a pretty crappy kisser too, unless I actually fancy the person, in which case I never notice because it's *amazing*. You're not alone.
I think I've gotten marginally better with practice, so I would say don't worry about it, and just keep kissing. Not sure how you want TSR to help with that, though...

Yeh I wasn't expecting demonstrations or anything...

But thanks for the advice.

Reply 12

Angrybanana

11

hanns.g

get drunk. might help.

;no; drunks are the worst kissers-ever.

Reply 13

StrangerthanEleven

12

I beg to differ :wink:

i dont

This reminds me of my ex, he genuinely didn't get it at all. Just sort of opened and closed his mouth like a fish... weird. He couldn't even mimic what I was doing.

It's hard to give tips because different things work for different people.

But, you can't go wrong with teasing kisses.

Reply 16

Kagutsuchi

20

Timeslikethese

This reminds me of my ex, he genuinely didn't get it at all. Just sort of opened and closed his mouth like a fish... weird. He couldn't even mimic what I was doing.

It's hard to give tips because different things work for different people.

But, you can't go wrong with teasing kisses.

Like on the neck - softly and slowly - then slowly slide down to her shoulders and massage her back.