kissed another man!

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i've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years now and recently i moved up to uni. thought i would miss him a lot and when we saw each other we would be so happy to see each other every minute would be fantastic. however he doesnt seem too bothered to see me and doesn't text or ring me very often, and when we see each other its just the same as it used to be.

all this didnt bother me too much, or at least i didnt think it did. but when i was out with my friends from halls the other night i had a bit too much to drink (i was actually quite sober until someone bought me a TRIPLE gin and i didnt even notice!). a boy from my halls was flirting like mad with me so i flirted back with him and ended up kissing him - it was just a peck on the lips, not a proper kiss but i still feel racked with guilt :frown:

it was a bad thing to do, i didnt even fancy the guy, i dont know why i did it!

arghhh i just feel so bad about it and wanted to get it off my chest :frown:

Reply 1

M.A.H

dont drink?

Reply 2

qubog

I'd sort out the problems with your boyfriend. Sure you aren't seeking attention? Also like M.A.H said...don't drink if it make you do things you regret

Reply 3

Kater Murr

If it was David Cameron, I think anyone would forgive you.

Otherwise, you need to think about your feelings for your current bf.

If it was just the drink, forget about it and move on.
If you have issues with your bf, talk about them.
If you don't love your boyfriend, end it.

If it was David Cameron - can I have his number?

Reply 4

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

Cheat on your boyfriend, or loveless relationship?

Win - win, yeah!

Reply 5

username47781

Well you are lucky it wasn't more, but I wouldn't be very happy if I was the boyfriend.

Think first of all you need to resolve whatever is wrong in your relationship, if you are going to flirt like then maybe you need to consider ending things with your boyfriend.

Reply 6

Holty-Dave

you should feel bad, learn to control yourself. Being drunk isn't an excuse.

Reply 7

herbal bug

you might want to tell him and see the post on this page on someone who's girlfriend cheated on them.

also be honest with him and tell him or it'll eat you up inside.
feel free to PM me
x

Reply 8

Meep!

BornUnderPunches

If it was David Cameron, I think anyone would forgive you.

My uncle went to school with David Cameron... He suddenly became my favourite uncle :biggrin:

On a serious note, OP, DON'T DRINK if it makes you behave like that. Sure, have a couple, but stop before you go too far. I would count it as cheating, and be very upset if my bf had done that, but then again, I do have a possibly slightly over the top view of cheating...

Reply 9

20083

OMG, since when has there been anything wrong with that type of kissing???

Incidentally, I thought this thread was going to be a guy coming out of the closet. Whoops!

Reply 10

HereFishyFishy

Ok, chill out missy. It's not that bad. You were hammered, yet you maintained a reasonable(ish) level of self-control. This time. But I would seriously consider having a chat with your boyfriend...and keeping off the triple gins.

Reply 11

L i b

Rock Fan

Well you are lucky it wasn't more

This tendancy of women, or those speaking on their behalf, to dismiss infidelity in this fashion annoys me incredibly. No, she's no "lucky" - just as she wasn't "unlucky" to end up in this situation - it's entirely her own fault. The sheer number of times I heard people speak in these terms is overwhelming - is everyone out there so enormously irresponsible?

Equally, I'm a dirty bugger - I've done my fair share of cheating in my younger years and will admit my full culpability therefor. It's the very least a person can do.

I also echo Nessy's point: I thought this was going to be a thread about arse fun.