Okay, so basically I met this guy a few months ago who I've been on 4 dates with. He was 25, still a virgin and had never been in a relationship before. I have had a few casual relationships in the past but never anything long term, so I'm not exactly experienced when it comes to relationships either.
I have to say, I didn't have any strong feelings towards him after our first date, but I thought I'd try and give him a chance because we had so much in common and he did seem like a lovely, genuine person.
As our 4th date, we went and watched a few films at his house. We attempted to have sex, I say attempted because his flimsy bed collapsed mid way through and then he had a mini asthma attack whilst trying to put the bed back together, I had to go and find his inhaler. And to top it off, he then did the most enourmous, smelly fart as he tried to pull one of the slats out of the bed frame..
If I didn't feel anything towards him before, I most definitely didn't at this point.
I ended up getting a taxi home after I'd helped put his bed back together, then when I woke up the following morning, I knew I would have to end it. I didn't want to hurt him or make him think it was something he did wrong, so I just said that I wasn't ready for a relationship. He took it really badly and kept on asking me if I was sure, if I could give him a chance, that he'd soon be able to give me 'mind blowing' sex, that he'd be an amazing boyfriend and he wants his first relationship to be with me etc. it all just started getting a bit weird and desperate, so I just stuck with the 'not ready for a relationship' story.
Fast forward a few days, we haven't spoken to one another since, but he's somehow found my profile on a dating app and started messaging me saying that he knew he was the problem and he hopes I'm having better luck now etc. Am I a really horrible person or is the whole situation just weird? It was only 4 dates and the last two, I thought, started to feel a bit forced and after the last one!