No signs of interest!

Last week, i had a meeting sort of thing with a group of girls and there was a girl i fancy in one the meetin too...
now this girl knows i fancy her, and during that meetin (Which i was partly conducting) she made quite a lot of eye contact, and we talked and everything...she seemed to show a lot of interest..
but suddenly after that day, she doesnt show any interest in me at all...
seems to be ignoring me too...
what do i do? she will be turning up to this weeks meetin so will it be good to ignore her for a while too? and "show" interest in some other gurl coz it seems to me that shes takin my interest towards her for granted...
or shud i just keep on gettin closer to her during the meetings?

Reply 1

U2doc

did you say something off putting?
try talking to her during the next meeting and see how it goes...don't try the jealousy thing...that'll be even more off putting...

Reply 2

Absinth

15

Assaholic_*******

will it be good to ignore her for a while too? and "show" interest in some other gurl coz it seems to me that shes takin my interest towards her for granted...

Bad idea.

She probably was waiting for you that day to make a move, but since you didn't...

:frown:

Assaholic_*******

or shud i just keep on gettin closer to her during the meetings?

Good idea.

:smile:

Reply 3

sparkly_woo

2

I agree.. Jealousy is not a good colour on anybody.

Just try acting normally around here, keep doing what you have been doing -- and just take it from there.

Reply 4

Profesh

20

U2doc

did you say something off putting?
try talking to her during the next meeting and see how it goes...don't try the jealousy thing...that'll be even more off putting...

No, it won't. Judging from the fact that this appears to be precisely what she's doing.

Reply 5

U2doc

Profesh

No, it won't. Judging from the fact that this appears to be precisely what she's doing.

well, she doesn't seem to be showing interest in some other guy in front of the OP...

Reply 6

sparkly_woo

2

U2doc

well, she doesn't seem to be showing interest in some other guy in front of the OP...

Nope. But thats not the only way to induce jealousy. By ignoring him she's giving him mixed signals.. playing games.

Reply 7

Assaholic_*******

OP

yeh thats wut it seems...she seems to be playing games...
its probably coz shes knows i like her!...im 100% positive she knows..
another thing is that when her friends are with her they sort of ignore me too :s-smilie:

...but last night i saw her friends alone and they initiated conversations!...wut the *** is goin on here?

Reply 8

AYE

10

Mind games my friend.

If you did talk alot and eye contact why would she blow you off like this?

Act like nothing has fazed you and be normal, when you see her don't act liek shes important or anything, than later on (few days?) show more interest then make your move.

Reply 9

qubog

12

She's playing hard to get. Ah the fun of male/female relationships. Hot, cold, hot, cold. Because you didn't show take it further the first day she flirted with you she's giving you the old brush off. In her head it'll make you realise how much you like her and obviously you will ask her out. WHY do people play these games??

Reply 10

punktopia

3

If you want to go down the "make her jealous" road... basically just bang the whole group of girls except her.

Reply 11

Assaholic_*******

OP

not all that crap man lol...
no banging...im lookin for a serious relationship...
n am pretty sure if i can be with her i can keep her lol...
i guess ill have to talk to her next meeting! ...
dam all this crap makes me feel like givin up on her!

Reply 12

U2doc

sparkly_woo

Nope. But thats not the only way to induce jealousy. By ignoring him she's giving him mixed signals.. playing games.

aah...ok...i get now...but u shudn't do it back using another girl...thta'll hurt...

Reply 13

sparkly_woo

2

Assaholic_*******

not all that crap man lol...
no banging...im lookin for a serious relationship...
n am pretty sure if i can be with her i can keep her lol...
i guess ill have to talk to her next meeting! ...

I think thats the best thing you can do, she may be playing these games -- doesn't mean you have to.
If you take the straight forward approach and just talk to her as you have been doing, you stand more chance of getting this serious relationship you want.

Reply 14

Assaholic_*******

OP

yeh...she told her friend she aint interested in me lol...
so another girl i guess! :biggrin:

No signs of interest!

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