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if a guy asks 'what do you want from me?'

what does he mean? my good guy mate asks me this frequently but I never know what to say. He told me from the beginning he doesn't wanna get married or have kids so what are the options?!

Reply 1

Unrequited

He literally just means what you want from him. I can't see how you can relate this to getting married and kids, especially if he's a 'good guy mate'.

Reply 2

UWS

He is asking you what you want from him.

/thread

Reply 3

Profesh

If you're this obtuse when communicating in person, then frankly he has my sympathies.

Reply 4

gabriellakhan

Original post by Anonymous

what does he mean? my good guy mate asks me this frequently but I never know what to say. He told me from the beginning he doesn't wanna get married or have kids so what are the options?!

Basically do you want to have sex lol

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by gabriellakhan

Basically do you want to have sex lol

Original post by Profesh

If you're this obtuse when communicating in person, then frankly he has my sympathies.

Original post by UWS

He is asking you what you want from him.

/thread

Original post by Unrequited

He literally just means what you want from him. I can't see how you can relate this to getting married and kids, especially if he's a 'good guy mate'.

Ok so we are more than 'friends' and he likes me a lot. But I don't want to say anything that'll scare him. If he's not into marriage I don't know what to expect

Reply 6

gabriellakhan

Original post by Anonymous

Ok so we are more than 'friends' and he likes me a lot. But I don't want to say anything that'll scare him. If he's not into marriage I don't know what to expect

Expect a casual no strings attached relationship

Reply 7

username1842595

He merely wants the pudda and nothing else

Reply 8

tsrisshit

Original post by UWS

He is asking you what you want from him.

/thread

your lack of experience with women is evident since you take everything so literally.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by Fermion.

He merely wants the pudda and nothing else

Original post by gabriellakhan

Expect a casual no strings attached relationship

That's fine but he also has feelings for me so it's all a little weird

Reply 10

Det.Hartigan

Original post by Anonymous

That's fine but he also has feelings for me so it's all a little weird

So he's wants sex. Once more, with feeling.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Original post by Det.Hartigan

So he's wants sex. Once more, with feeling.

Hmm cool

Reply 12

user382

Original post by Profesh

If you're this obtuse when communicating in person, then frankly he has my sympathies.

Reply 13

Profesh

Original post by Det.Hartigan

So he's wants sex. Once more, with feeling.

Once more, with literacy.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by Profesh

Once more, with literacy.

haha

Reply 15

Dexsor

So basically your sleeping together but your just mates? And don't be scared of saying anything. Just because he's not interested in marriage doesn't mean he wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with you lol. Some people stay together 40 years and never get married lol. If your happy just being good mates and having sex just leave it at that. If you feel he wants to take it into an actual relationship and you do aswell then ask him. If he says no you can just carry on being friends with benefits

Reply 16

Devify

Well he's clearly asking for what do you want from him xD

He may not want to get married but it's possible that he wants a long term relationship still. So he's asking you whether you just want the kinds friends with benefits thing from him or if you want a relationship.