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If you found him attractive and he was willing to do what you told him, be commanded by you and serve you? Put himself in a position beneath you and show that through how much control and respect he gives you, and the tasks he performs for you?

Would you find this unappealing or appealing?
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Well I haven't exactly been in very many relationships, but I'd respect a guy a lot more if he stood up for something, the things that he wanted. That guy just sounds weak willed and pathetic. But you know... I like a good heated argument and a bit of friction - I think it's good for the soul!
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Sounds like slavery.
Personally it wouldn't float my boat. I'm all for being dominant in the relationship from time to time but it's just as fun being dominated. Wouldn't it get boring having someone never challenge you?
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unappealing, well except for the bedroom part of it.
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No. I would hate it. It would be like going out with a child or a small slobbering puppy dog, adorable for a while but would get old fast.
Why are you asking?
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I think I'd love it, but soon tire of it. I'd feel like I was being mean to the poor guy and like I feel about women who do this, I'd lose some respect for him. Kind of offputting partners should be equals.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
If you found him attractive and he was willing to do what you told him, be commanded by you and serve you? Put himself in a position beneath you and show that through how much control and respect he gives you, and the tasks he performs for you?

Would you find this unappealing or appealing?
If I wanted that, I'd get a dog. And I don't like dogs.

Yes, it's nice to know that they respect you, but a relationship should be a balance, not one person mindlessly worshipping the other.
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(Original post by Abeille)
No. I would hate it. It would be like going out with a child or a small slobbering puppy dog, adorable for a while but would get old fast.
Why are you asking?
He probably has a fetish.

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And no, I would never be with a guy who has no spine. But then I am male myself, so ignore it if you're not after my opinion .
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If I wanted that, I'd get a dog. And I don't like dogs.

Yes, it's nice to know that they respect you, but a relationship should be a balance, not one person mindlessly worshipping the other.
I'm just curious I s'pose. There are women that like that.
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Ment tell women what to do - so its all wrong
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not at all


but then i like being dominated (and i dont even mean that sexually)
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I'm just curious I s'pose. There are women that like that.
Possibly, but they must be pretty messed up. Being in control is fun sometimes. But having a little kid trailing round after you with no thoughts or opinions of their own is just lame.
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Any guy who tries to pick up girls by being a 'nice guy' - Read this thread carefully.
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No, it'd be boring.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
If you found him attractive and he was willing to do what you told him, be commanded by you and serve you? Put himself in a position beneath you and show that through how much control and respect he gives you, and the tasks he performs for you?

Would you find this unappealing or appealing?
Obviously there's a lot of variation in what people prefer, especially if you're talking about this in a sexual sense. However, what you describe sounds fairly extreme compared to what most girls will prefer (what you are describing sounds like slavery), especially when you consider that it's typically men who are more dominant to some extent. It's not as if that holds for everyone though, and there are bound to be girls who are into that sort of thing.
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ew...no.
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Meh no. Men should be the dominant ones - I guess a little variety is good but that sounds sicko.
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(Original post by Helenia)
Possibly, but they must be pretty messed up. Being in control is fun sometimes. But having a little kid trailing round after you with no thoughts or opinions of their own is just lame.
Let me try and reiterate. What about as a sexual turn on, not 'being a puppy dog' or suchlike, but the guy just goin out of his way to do considerate stuff for the girl that takes a lot of effort and that he wouldnt necessarily want to do, just as a sign of how he values her?
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Very creepy.
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(Original post by Chumbaniya)
Obviously there's a lot of variation in what people prefer, especially if you're talking about this in a sexual sense.
I am really. Like normally, when I'm sexually satisfied, I have no desire to be remotely submissive to a woman. It's only when I'm horny that sexually aggressive, strong and commanding women feature in my fantasies.

Kind of like using their mental strength to win me over, being almost presumptuous, or arrogant, commanding me and having me serve them orally, stuff like that
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