Join TSR now for chat about life, relationships, fashion and more…Sign up now

Let him down nicely...

    Online

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    No. I have a crush on him. I like him as more than friends...
    I mean you love him as if he were part of the family!
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    I am trying to get to know him better. Like I have said before I fear it may just be a crush and nothing serious.

    As for rejecting him. I know that he will have to get used to it but I'm not sure what to tell him...
    Awww girl, life is hard, we have to make difficult decisions.
    The guy you immensely like you have said does not feel the same about you, and there are others lurking somewhere, you need to try, and give this guy a chance. Experiment?= although this is the wrong word to use.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Nunchuck-master-2334)
    I mean you love him as if he were part of the family!
    I guess...?
    Online

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    I am trying to get to know him better. Like I have said before I fear it may just be a crush and nothing serious.

    As for rejecting him. I know that he will have to get used to it but I'm not sure what to tell him...
    "Thing is although I really like him I don't feel I know him enough to date him."

    Well how are you meant to get to know him better without "dating"? Do you even know what this means? It doesn't mean you're boyfriend and girlfriend it's just another word for getting to know each other and seeing whether it's possible to be in a relationship with each other.
    Online

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    I guess...?
    Seems logical to me
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by adorable16)
    Awww girl, life is hard, we have to make difficult decisions.
    The guy you immensely like you have said does not feel the same about you, and there are others lurking somewhere, you need to try, and give this guy a chance. Experiment?= although this is the wrong word to use.
    Thing is I have never had anyone fancy me in the way that he claims to...
    So you think I should try him out?
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    Thing is I have never had anyone fancy me in the way that he claims to...
    So you think I should try him out?
    I think so, especially considering you like him
    And if you do decide to do so please tell me how it went, I would love to know.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Philip-flop)
    "Thing is although I really like him I don't feel I know him enough to date him."

    Well how are you meant to get to know him better without "dating"? Do you even know what this means? It doesn't mean you're boyfriend and girlfriend it's just another word for getting to know each other and seeing whether it's possible to be in a relationship with each other.
    But for now I only want to be friends with him. Nothing more. I don't want to lead him on with no reason...
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by adorable16)
    I think so, especially considering you like him
    And if you do decide to do so please tell me how it went, I would love to know.
    Don't worry I will
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    But for now I only want to be friends with him. Nothing more. I don't want to lead him on with no reason...
    Don't lead him on, just be honest with what you want. Tell him what you told us.
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    Don't worry I will
    Awwww thank you
    I hope my advice was beneficial somehow.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by UWS)
    Don't lead him on, just be honest with what you want. Tell him what you told us.
    How do I do that without hurting him?
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by adorable16)
    Awwww thank you
    I hope my advice was beneficial somehow.
    I'm sure I'll use it tonight when I see him
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    How do I do that without hurting him?
    You tell him you're not looking to date right now. Putting it without hurting him is only going to give him the wrong impression, don't be that girl who is like "you're such a nice guy, etc..."
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    I'm sure I'll use it tonight when I see him
    Yay!
    The glories of dating
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by adorable16)
    Yay!
    The glories of dating
    It's stressful!
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by UWS)
    You tell him you're not looking to date right now. Putting it without hurting him is only going to give him the wrong impression, don't be that girl who is like "you're such a nice guy, etc..."
    Right...
    OK...
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    It's stressful!
    Is it?
    I would not know... haha
    I'll ask you for future advice as you are a pro
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by adorable16)
    Is it?
    I would not know... haha
    I'll ask you for future advice as you are a pro
    I'm the worst when it comes to relationships! Especially my own!
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Bham369)
    I'm the worst when it comes to relationships! Especially my own!
    Awwww I am sure you are not, it must be overwhelming though
 
 
 
Write a reply… Reply
Submit reply
Updated: May 22, 2017
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Poll
Which party will you be voting for in the General Election 2017?

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Quick reply
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.