I&#x27;m pathetic, I know!! But I feel bad about this...

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Not quite sure where to start.....

Last year, I was on a language and business course. This year, I'm doing 2 languages.

After a language lesson last week, a girl who always says hi to me said 'you're doing Lngx2, right?' and I said I was. This girl who was also with her - and whom I'd had a crush on for much of the previous year, although we'd never spoken(^^;;; ) - looked right at me and said 'Bleckh!'.

I took it as a personal insult (me she was going 'Bleckh!' rather than the course) and was very angry about it. In my anger, I deleted some people on my Facebook who were on my previous course..... but they'd never done any harm! I did it because I knew at least one of them was associated with her.

Ummm..... is there anything I can do to make amends? Is it worth taking the people I deleted back?

what on earth is bleckh!?

errm, if they haven't done anything then why delete them? Just re-add them and say you were drunk and messing round on facebook.

Reply 2

dobbs

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Jolae

what on earth is bleckh!?

errm, if they haven't done anything then why delete them? Just re-add them and say you were drunk and messing round on facebook.

lol! In this thread I'm 100% in agreement with you :biggrin:

Except - "bleckh!" is like "urgh" - say it! It will make sense if you try to say it :smile:

Reply 3

OP

'Bleckh' = Yuck, an expression of disapproval.

The 'Bleckh' girl made a face as she said it.

Reply 4

dobbs

lol! In this thread I'm 100% in agreement with you :biggrin:

Except - "bleckh!" is like "urgh" - say it! It will make sense if you try to say it :smile:

my god i hope we dont have to do a dissertation on 'bleckh' this year :redface:

and op,

if she has some kind of problem with you, then i dont think anything is going to develop :frown:

If she has just randomly insulted you here then is she really that nice a person? I think your only infactuated with her, which is not the same as loving someone - the same has happened with me and str8 guys. I mean who knows if you start talking more to her friend and slowly working your way into the group you might grow on her.

thats the only advice i can offer

Reply 5

OP

I think you're right re: this girl. I didn't really speak to the Facebook people very much either... but they've still done nothing wrong. Plus, we're all doing the same language.

So I say I wasmessing about? WHat if they don't believe that?

Reply 6

OP

Jolae

my god i hope we dont have to do a dissertation on 'bleckh' this year :redface:

and op,

if she has some kind of problem with you, then i dont think anything is going to develop :frown:

If she has just randomly insulted you here then is she really that nice a person? I think your only infactuated with her, which is not the same as loving someone - the same has happened with me and str8 guys. I mean who knows if you start talking more to her friend and slowly working your way into the group you might grow on her.

thats the only advice i can offer

^^;;; sounds about right! Thanks so much * :hugs:

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Reply 7

_:_Sel_:_By_:_Date_:_16_:_

I think you're right re: this girl. I didn't really speak to the Facebook people very much either... but they've still done nothing wrong. Plus, we're all doing the same language.

So I say I wasmessing about? WHat if they don't believe that?

do they know what you were doing that night? If not just say you had been out drinking (unless your underage). Or maybe something like your cousin was messing around on it lol.

Reply 8

OP

I think I'll do that tomorrow! Would rep again but can't.... Anyway, at least I know what to do now!

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