Should i make the first move?

Right met a guy a few weeks ago at a club and we chatted at the start then through the night he'd just smile at me but i didnt really make a move to go speak to him, even though i kinda liked him. Saw him again on tues and we spoke loads/flirted through the night....at the end of the night he asked for my number and then rang me so i got his....i'm obviously neurotic but should he have text/rang by now if he was really interested or should i just contact him? (note i was kinda rude to him, as he asked at the end of the night when he'd see me again-we'd already spoken abt comin bk to the same club again next tues-so i said probz tues...i dnt think thats wot he was getting at.)

Reply 1

laser

10

Yes. He's probably thinking the same "If she's interested she'd have contacted me by now".

I wouldn't say you were rude, but you were giving the impression that you wouldn't want to date him or whatever with your leaving comments.

Just do it and see how it goes from there...

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

laser

Yes. He's probably thinking the same "If she's interested she'd have contacted me by now".

I wouldn't say you were rude, but you were giving the impression that you wouldn't want to date him or whatever with your leaving comments.

Just do it and see how it goes from there...

those weren't my leaving comments lol..he said that before he asked for my number.

Reply 3

SilverWings

14

Text him, see if he wants to go out Friday night.

Reply 4

vizor

1

Stop playing games. If you like him then call him.

You have nothing to lose.

Reply 5

yellow96

15

If you text him and he likes you, he's not going to think "ewww, why is she texting me?", he's just gonna be chuffed. If you text him and he doesn't like you, which is highly unlikely, then there's no problem anyway. Just do it.

Reply 6

qubog

12

He wouldn't have asked for your number if he didn't like you. Text him!! The worst that can happen is that he won't reply...in which case, it's no big loss

Reply 7

Friggerpants

1

"hey you ok, I was wondering if you're out at weekend or not, and if you wanna meet up or something"

Easy son.

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