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    Hi all,

    My father-in-law's best friend is having a stag do and I'm being invited. They're all 40+ and I'm 20, and my father-in-law is literally the only guy I will know there.

    What the f**k do I do and how do I not make an arse out of myself for the whole night?
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    If you don't think you ll get along with them could you politely decline the invite?
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    (Original post by WishfulThinker1)
    Hi all,

    My father-in-law's best friend is having a stag do and I'm being invited. They're all 40+ and I'm 20, and my father-in-law is literally the only guy I will know there.

    What the f**k do I do and how do I not make an arse out of myself for the whole night?
    Go and have a good laugh.
    Dont get into a fight.
    Do socialise
    PACE yourself as everyone else may be expecting you to get drunk early.
    Dont kop off with any females, strippers or otherwise as he could have that over your head as a joke infinitum when the wife is around.
    Semd a reassuring text to the wife.


    ps married at 20?
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    Go and have a good laugh.
    Dont get into a fight.
    Do socialise
    PACE yourself as everyone else may be expecting you to get drunk early.
    Dont kop off with any females, strippers or otherwise as he could have that over your head as a joke infinitum when the wife is around.
    Semd a reassuring text to the wife.


    ps married at 20?
    Definitely won't get into a fight. My main concerns I suppose are being picked on for being so young, and socializing. I'm definitely not going to be kopping off with any other girl, but at the same time I feel like it's a test infront of my father in law somehow.. But maybe im overthinking?

    P.S. Engaged, I just prefer father-in-law
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    (Original post by WishfulThinker1)
    Definitely won't get into a fight. My main concerns I suppose are being picked on for being so young, and socializing. I'm definitely not going to be kopping off with any other girl, but at the same time I feel like it's a test infront of my father in law somehow.. But maybe im overthinking?

    P.S. Engaged, I just prefer father-in-law
    ofc its a test. Have fun, mix, have some beers, converse, but be an ok son in law, not someone he bans.
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    (Original post by 999tigger)
    ofc its a test. Have fun, mix, have some beers, converse, but be an ok son in law, not someone he bans.
    Thankyou for your help
 
 
 
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