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Had sex with best friend?
Anon because my best friend's boyfriend uses this website...ALOT. And knows my username from other sites.
I'm 18 years old. I've known my best friend (girl) since I was 7.
She's had a long-term boyfriend since she was 14 and he now goes to university quite far away. She's actually partially-engaged to him.
Anyways, ever since the age of 13, I've fancied my best friend. I'm pretty sure I fell in love with her and I've been hiding my feelings for her ever since...I've had girlfriends and stuff, however at the back of my mind I KNOW I love her
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Anyways, since sixth form started, me and her have been getting very sexual. Although its jokey-sexual, its still quite sexual and involves a lot of touching underneath tables and hugging, touching one anothers arses etc...
We ended up going out on a friend-date last night and after a nice meal and lots of fun, we ended up sneaking into my house.
We had sex.
I feel awful. What happens now? She feels she made a mistake...but I thought it was...great.
HELP. I really think I love her...and she might love me back? But what if she does? Is this relationship OK?
I'm 18 years old. I've known my best friend (girl) since I was 7.
She's had a long-term boyfriend since she was 14 and he now goes to university quite far away. She's actually partially-engaged to him.
Anyways, ever since the age of 13, I've fancied my best friend. I'm pretty sure I fell in love with her and I've been hiding my feelings for her ever since...I've had girlfriends and stuff, however at the back of my mind I KNOW I love her
.Anyways, since sixth form started, me and her have been getting very sexual. Although its jokey-sexual, its still quite sexual and involves a lot of touching underneath tables and hugging, touching one anothers arses etc...
We ended up going out on a friend-date last night and after a nice meal and lots of fun, we ended up sneaking into my house.
We had sex.
I feel awful. What happens now? She feels she made a mistake...but I thought it was...great.
HELP. I really think I love her...and she might love me back? But what if she does? Is this relationship OK?Scroll to see replies
You should have stopped her when it was getting too far, then again she is just as stupid for not stopping, I really feel sorry for her boyfriend, she obviously isn't that committed and how the hell can you be partially-engaged?
I can't believe that you asked if this was ok, clearly it's not ok 
I say we should report the OP to the police. Having sex with a 14 yr old is wrong. You paedophile.
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I can't believe that you asked if this was ok, clearly it's not ok
What the ****? At least he got his hole! Even if she doesn't "love him", at least he can move on and look back in 10 years thinking "Well, at least I banged her." It's her that's cheating, for him it's fair game.
T_Bag
she goes to uni now lol
Uh-ooooh, are you the OP? Did you forget to anon? Dun-dun-duuuur now everyone's gon' know.
Anonymous
Anon because my best friend's boyfriend uses this website...ALOT. And knows my username from other sites.
I'm 18 years old. I've known my best friend (girl) since I was 7.
She's had a long-term boyfriend since she was 14 and he now goes to university quite far away. She's actually partially-engaged to him.
Anyways, ever since the age of 13, I've fancied my best friend. I'm pretty sure I fell in love with her and I've been hiding my feelings for her ever since...I've had girlfriends and stuff, however at the back of my mind I KNOW I love her.
Anyways, since sixth form started, me and her have been getting very sexual. Although its jokey-sexual, its still quite sexual and involves a lot of touching underneath tables and hugging, touching one anothers arses etc...
We ended up going out on a friend-date last night and after a nice meal and lots of fun, we ended up sneaking into my house.
We had sex.
I feel awful. What happens now? She feels she made a mistake...but I thought it was...great.
HELP. I really think I love her...and she might love me back? But what if she does? Is this relationship OK?
I'm 18 years old. I've known my best friend (girl) since I was 7.
She's had a long-term boyfriend since she was 14 and he now goes to university quite far away. She's actually partially-engaged to him.
Anyways, ever since the age of 13, I've fancied my best friend. I'm pretty sure I fell in love with her and I've been hiding my feelings for her ever since...I've had girlfriends and stuff, however at the back of my mind I KNOW I love her
.Anyways, since sixth form started, me and her have been getting very sexual. Although its jokey-sexual, its still quite sexual and involves a lot of touching underneath tables and hugging, touching one anothers arses etc...
We ended up going out on a friend-date last night and after a nice meal and lots of fun, we ended up sneaking into my house.
We had sex.
I feel awful. What happens now? She feels she made a mistake...but I thought it was...great.
HELP. I really think I love her...and she might love me back? But what if she does? Is this relationship OK?no it isnt , the whole thing stinks
maybe she has a sexually open relationship with him.
then you're quids in my friend.
then you're quids in my friend.
It was wrong, as she has a boyf.
But if you do have feelings for each other then the fact she has a boyf is not necessarily enough to stop things happening.
Best friend boy/girl relationships, as much as i used to say they can always be 'just friends'
i don't think so anymore, either the girl or boy (or both) will want more.
or where ur so close u get confused. maybe you love her, but you are not in love with her..only you know.
You need to speak to her, and find out how she's feeling.
Otherwise it could get awkward.
Good luck
xxxxxx
But if you do have feelings for each other then the fact she has a boyf is not necessarily enough to stop things happening.
Best friend boy/girl relationships, as much as i used to say they can always be 'just friends'
i don't think so anymore, either the girl or boy (or both) will want more.
or where ur so close u get confused. maybe you love her, but you are not in love with her..only you know.
You need to speak to her, and find out how she's feeling.
Otherwise it could get awkward.
Good luck
xxxxxx
Neither your relationship with her nor her relationship with her boyfriend is currently "ok". If she means that much to you then you should tell her how you feel, then back off and allow her to sort things out with the other guy. If she doesn't want to be with you then you should accept that and if you love her you'll keep this to yourself and not break up her relationship with her boyfriend over what she feels to be a stupid mistake. Obviously from a moral point of view she shouldn't be sleeping with people behind her boyfriend's back but it's not your business to tell him about what happened - she needs to sort things out herself. Whatever you do, don't sleep with her again unless she has broken up with her boyfriend completely and made it clear to him that they're no longer in a relationship and won't be getting back together.
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