This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- Is 5,1 too short
- guy / feelings
- I keep attracting older men on Grindr
- i thought i was lesbian but i have a crush on a guy
- Crush Diaries <3
- Girls find only 20% of guys attractive
- What kind of clothes look good on guys?
- Argument with gf over looks vs personality debate
- Help
- Scandinavian guys
- Very popular guy who I am interested in
- Calling my guy friend
- are girls only interested in popular guys
- This guy who has a girlfriend might be into me
- Does this guy like me or is it in my head?
- Gcse (wjec) mathematics unit 2 higher paper (calculator)
- crush advice
- Ladies, would you date a guy who has vitiligo
- Not shaving down there stopping me getting a boyfriend?
- Should they be together?
There's this guy...
Isn't there always?
I like him, and he likes me. I'm 21, he's 29. And I don't know whether that's too old for me.
But also, a while ago he was "going out" with someone I work with. And she was married, which he knew. It went on for 2 years or so. I really don't approve of affairs, and I dunno, I just kinda think less of him because of it. And then things might get messy because I work with The Ex.
Should I go for it, or stay away?
I like him, and he likes me. I'm 21, he's 29. And I don't know whether that's too old for me.
But also, a while ago he was "going out" with someone I work with. And she was married, which he knew. It went on for 2 years or so. I really don't approve of affairs, and I dunno, I just kinda think less of him because of it. And then things might get messy because I work with The Ex.
Should I go for it, or stay away?
Reply 1
That age gap is nothing! It's perfect for guys to be a fair bit older than their female partners because we mature far quicker than they do 
If you like him enough then his past won't be a problem. It's always worth giving things a try. Even if they don't work out, at least you won't spend your time wondering what could have been.
If you like him enough then his past won't be a problem. It's always worth giving things a try. Even if they don't work out, at least you won't spend your time wondering what could have been.
Reply 2
Don't put too much pressure on the relationship...just go on a few dates, and see how it goes. Try to keep it quiet, though, and make it clear to him that you want to keep it quiet. You never know how it could turn out.
Related discussions
- Is 5,1 too short
- guy / feelings
- I keep attracting older men on Grindr
- i thought i was lesbian but i have a crush on a guy
- Crush Diaries <3
- Girls find only 20% of guys attractive
- What kind of clothes look good on guys?
- Argument with gf over looks vs personality debate
- Help
- Scandinavian guys
- Very popular guy who I am interested in
- Calling my guy friend
- are girls only interested in popular guys
- This guy who has a girlfriend might be into me
- Does this guy like me or is it in my head?
- Gcse (wjec) mathematics unit 2 higher paper (calculator)
- crush advice
- Ladies, would you date a guy who has vitiligo
- Not shaving down there stopping me getting a boyfriend?
- Should they be together?
Latest
Trending
Last reply 46 minutes ago
What food item are you currently craving?Last reply 19 hours ago
TSR Rate My Plate: post a picture of your delicious food!Last reply 1 week ago
can u guys help me get my mum back ðŸ˜(revenge post)Last reply 2 weeks ago
mum FORCED me to sign a (legal?!) contract to become a doctor or face DOOR removalðŸ˜Last reply 4 weeks ago
HELP!!! is this normal punishment or are my parents being weird???Last reply 1 month ago
feeling of bugs crawling under my skin/never feeling cleanLast reply 1 month ago
What painkillers do they give you when you get your wisdom teeth removed?Last reply 1 month ago
Can someone please help me tag Artful_lounger, i want to ask him a questionLast reply 1 month ago
I have a very important and urgent question
