The Student Room Group

Boyfriend issues

hey

am posting as annoymous so my friends dont notice this is me but i really need some other opinios and sanity about this..

me and my boyfriend have been together about 13 months, i lost my virginity to him and we have sed we love each other. but sometimes occasionally he really drives me crazy and for about an hour i wonder why the hell am i with him and think that i should break up to him.
but the problem is that i can never decide if im going too or not.. he is my second boyfriend and the first lasted about a month before he cheated on me so im scared to let him go.
i see him every weekend and everyday at sixth form in breaks +our friendship groups are pretty combined, i know i couldnt be just friends with him and i would hate to see him flirting with other girls. but i dont know if we've been together too long and become like a grumpy old married couple.

I'm really stuck and any voice of reason even if its to tell me to get real would be appreciated lotttttttts
thanks
XXX

Reply 1

I think it's natural to argue or get mad sometimes, it can't be helped if you spend so much time together. But I don't think it's a reason to break up if that's the only thing bothering you. I suppose it depends how often you're arguing, and what about really.

Reply 2

He drives you crazy for about an hour..... how often is this?

If it is around once a month, that is ok.
If more than once a month, then maybe not :frown:

Reply 3

well at least he is stil wiv you
if you lve him stick with him
never leave the one you love kos u will regret
just speak to him and tell him how you feel
honesty prevails.

Reply 4

Maybe you should try spending a bit less time with him, maybe going out with your friends more or something? If you're spending so much time with one person there's bound to be things that will start to irritate you a bit, but it's not worth losing someone you love just over that. I'm sure there are a lot more things that you love about him than things that annoy you.

And talk to him