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Guy i like on drugs- part 2

Hi
i thank everyone for their advice on the last post, it gave me alot to think about, however i was talking to him last night and he said that he would do his pot when i was around regardless if i wanted him to or not :confused:

.My friends say that it isn't respectful, and they are right.But i do really like the guy though as i can talk to him, whereas i haven;t been able to do that in the past. He also says that he loves his ex, but is getting over her and nothing will happen as she is lesbianlly inclinced. Were taking things slowly- my friends however disagree and they say he's stringing me along?? :rolleyes:

, i suppose i am quite naive when it comes to guys and relationships.
Any advice would be great, thanks.

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Reply 1

Captain Scarlet

I dont know about the other thread you speak of but just from that post there I get the impression he is stringing you along and he doesnt seem worth it and is, as you say, selfish.

Reply 2

squeak

his taking drugs is going to carry on being a problem to you and will probably get worse. why don't you find someone you don't have all these problem with.

Reply 3

username34965

Captain Scarlet

I dont know about the other thread you speak of but just from that post there I get the impression he is stringing you along and he doesnt seem worth it and is, as you say, selfish.

As im naive, can you explain how he is stringing me along?
WB

Reply 4

Soul Rebel

if you like him you like him. if you dont like him smoking ganja then dont get with him. you wont be abe to stp him smoking if he likes it, trust me. No guy likes to be told what and what not to do so yea...

Reply 5

Captain Scarlet

kels488

As im naive, can you explain how he is stringing me along?
WB

Well he doesnt care what you think about his drug habit or whatever you want to call it. He's admitted he's still in love with his ex and to me it seems like he's stringing you along.

Reply 6

Laevis

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He's taking drugs

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He's refusing to stop taking drugs when you are around

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He tells you he loves his ex, but the main reason nothing is going to happen is, not because he will resist, or because he feels too much for you, but because she is possibly bi-sexual

I think this guy might not be the one :s-smilie:

Reply 7

hotfuzz

Sounds like he's keeping you interested, but is distancing himself from you just incase he decides that he's not interested in you. As for the drugs thing, sound like a complete tool. I would just keep away from him. It's not the fact that he does drugs, it's what he said about continuing to do them around you. He has no respect for you.

Reply 8

squeak

why be so harsh to the guy..the OP knew she was anti drugs when she began to like him. so why would you continue to persuit someone you knew did something you were dead against. it's been her choice to get with him, from my point of view he's just not that interested. don't slate him for doing something he's always done, and for not being over his ex..

Reply 9

username34965

Captain Scarlet

Well he doesnt care what you think about his drug habit or whatever you want to call it. He's admitted he's still in love with his ex and to me it seems like he's stringing you along.

u mean if his ex came back and told him that she wanted to get back together, he would?, leaving me in the ****** basically?

Reply 10

squeak

why are you asking us? ask him ffs.

no offence like.

Reply 11

username34965

ffs? what does that mean, never heard it before

Reply 12

hotfuzz

For **** sake.

Reply 13

Captain Scarlet

kels488

u mean if his ex came back and told him that she wanted to get back together, he would?, leaving me in the ****** basically?

Well it's never good to see someone in a romantic form if you're in love with another person. And he probably would yea. It's a bad idea getting involved with him I think in my opinion.

Ffs= for **** sake

Reply 14

squeak

it means for ****s sake.

it seems stupid for you to be on here, clinging on to someones idea of what this guy is doing. ask him. IMO i really don't see your relationship blossoming if it even gets started in the first place. why not keep it to friends. you obviously have a problem if you're on here questioning this relationship again. you don't like him smoking weed -which he's going to carry on doing...he's in love with his ex -do these things not say something to you?

Reply 15

iaiin

For ****s sake, in my personal opinion - it's only pot, who really cares.

If you don't agree, then stop bothering with him. He's not going to change for you, and I don't see why he should. You're not even seeing him, so to ask him to stop is a bit weird.