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    So I am 17 and lost my virginity a few days ago, the problem is that it wasn't as good as I built it up to be. It didn't really feel that good either. I think an issue was I was constantly worrying about if i would c** and if i could make her c**. This meant i couldnt keep my erection... i really dont want this to happen again because i really like this girl... what can i do to help this?
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    (Original post by LWood99)
    So I am 17 and lost my virginity a few days ago, the problem is that it wasn't as good as I built it up to be. It didn't really feel that good either. I think an issue was I was constantly worrying about if i would c** and if i could make her c**. This meant i couldnt keep my erection... i really dont want this to happen again because i really like this girl... what can i do to help this?
    Happens, once it's not a new experience you'll get over it. A lot of the time you cant get the girl to orgasm. Most of the time men will finish before the girl starts.
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    My mans, just have fun. Sex isn't about cumming, it's about fun and exploring each other.
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    Understandable experience for one's first time; a lot of pressure through media, false expectations to be able to perform excellently 100% of the time.

    Basically, try not to worry, as the anxiety will reduce your enjoyment and make it more likely not to finish. It's not a race, just have fun.
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    1. Jerk off less / not at all.
    2. Chill out, it's just sex.
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    suk off
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    I know very few people who's first time was mind-blowing. Mainly mediocre, painfully funny and damned right disappointing.

    Have fun. It gets better.
 
 
 
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