Online dating an older man and I don't know if they are creepy or not

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Iamtheone123
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I have been texting/flirting with an older guy at the time I thought it was ok but know he wants to meet I asked if he texts younger girls a lot and he said yes but not 2 at one time. He is freaking me out now as I'm thinking more logically and all the stuff he has said sounds creepy. I want to block him from everything but I'm scared he might actually be an ok man and I am just going to hurt him. We have a good laugh texting and he is super smart but he somehow knows exactly what to say. Please help
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please end this 'relationship'. I can sense this is not going to end well
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What is the age difference?
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What is the age difference?
It isn't too much only 7 yeas
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It isn't too much only 7 yeas
If you are afraid he is creepy then block him. Don't hold on doing things because you are afraid of hurting his feelings.
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If you are afraid he is creepy then block him. Don't hold on doing things because you are afraid of hurting his feelings.
Ya I just feel bad I know I shouldn't but I should just get out of this before it gets too far thank you
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(Original post by Iamtheone123)
It isn't too much only 7 yeas


so the worst case scenario is that you are 18 and he is 25?



seems like you're blowing this out of proportion imo, it isn't that big a gap
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break it off :yep: hes looking for a fling:lol:

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Agree blown out of proportion. 7 years isnt that much, unless you are under 16.
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so the worst case scenario is that you are 18 and he is 25?



seems like you're blowing this out of proportion imo, it isn't that big a gap
Yeah I'm a bit younger than that (literally only on for advice about this)
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break it off :yep: hes looking for a fling:lol:

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Hahaha omg the guy is... no comment :rofl:
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(Original post by Iamtheone123)
I have been texting/flirting with an older guy at the time I thought it was ok but know he wants to meet I asked if he texts younger girls a lot and he said yes but not 2 at one time. He is freaking me out now as I'm thinking more logically and all the stuff he has said sounds creepy. I want to block him from everything but I'm scared he might actually be an ok man and I am just going to hurt him. We have a good laugh texting and he is super smart but he somehow knows exactly what to say. Please help
You yourself said he said creepy things so he probably is creepy, you should block him. Him being smart and having a laugh with him doesn't mean hes no creepy, most creepy guys can do that.
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You yourself said he's said creepy things so he probably is creepy, you should block him. Him being smart and having a laugh with him doesn't mean hes no creepy, most creepy guys can do that.
Yeah I know I'm just stupid af and shouldn't have continued texting him after he said creepy stuff
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(Original post by tasha_tah)
break it off :yep: hes looking for a fling:lol:

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Hahaha omg the guy is... no comment :rofl:
you two still doing that tagging eachother in threads thing..?

jeeze
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you two still doing that tagging eachother in threads thing..?

jeeze
Yesss my boiii
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if you do meet up then take someone with you.
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(Original post by Lychee627)
Hahaha omg the guy is... no comment :rofl:
looool:rofl: we get it:rolleyes:
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you two still doing that tagging eachother in threads thing..?

jeeze
dont lie you missed us
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(Original post by Iamtheone123)
Yeah I'm a bit younger than that (literally only on for advice about this)

well if you're under 16 you probably should stop tbh


if you're 16/17, then if your uncomfortable with it just stop then. It's still legal ..but if you feel uneasy then stop, tbh if you're under 18 you really shouldn't be on dating sites ....so if "creepy" older men are hitting on you it's partly your fault.
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Yeah I know I'm just stupid af and shouldn't have continued texting him after he said creepy stuff
well as long as you've learnt your lesson, that's all that matters.
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if you do meet up then take someone with you.
This, or at least meet and remain somewhere very public.
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