Over-flirting when drunk

Hey, just thought I would see if anyone else is like me! When i've had a couple of drinks I become an uber-flirt. I find that uber-flirts stick together after a couple because they know they can indulge in shameless flirtation without the other person thinking its going to lead somewhere. I don't know what it is, but I think it's related to the whole "I love you, you're my best friend" thing I get when i've been drinking too. I'm the most affectionate drunk you're ever likely to meet. Its not really a problem, because I know i'm doing it but me and my friend have a codeword - she does it too - when we are over flirting with people you know you're gonna feel like an idiot with the next day. E.g. flatmates :eek:

that can get pretty awkward in the common room the next day!

Please contribute your over-flirting stories because they are hilarious and make me feel better about being so silly when i'm drunk :smile:

Reply 1

punktopia

3

I once flirted with a lampost, a dog and a shrub whilst drunk. The next day I found out they were just really ugly women.

Reply 2

ßlαcksωαn

17

I don't feel like sharing any stories lol
but yes I do get extra flirty or maybe have a boosted confidence when drunk or maybe ugly guys look hotter than what they are or maybe even females look like men? lol all good stuff :p:

Reply 3

sarCAZm

11

Everyone does it I think..its the added confidence and relaxation of all your inhibitions :smile:

Reply 4

Kater Murr

20

Yeah...

Oh God, last night...

lol.

Reply 5

Gymnosopher

I declared my undying love for half a dozen girls and then for a tree. The next day it was still a tree however..

Reply 6

qubog

OP

12

Bornunderpunches, I hope you didn't cheat on David!

Reply 7

qubog

OP

12

blackswan

I don't feel like sharing any stories lol
but yes I do get extra flirty or maybe have a boosted confidence when drunk or maybe ugly guys look hotter than what they are or maybe even females look like men? lol all good stuff :p:

That means you have good stories :eek:

Reply 8

sokissme

oh god...i flirt enough when i'm sober, but when i'm drunk i take flirting to ridiculous levels lol
how embarrassing! :s-smilie:

Reply 9

Saffie

11

haha yes

unfortunately my uni's quite small so i can't afford to embarrass myself with too many people.
It's all about self control :wink:

Reply 10

thebarmaidsmiles

I'm shocking. I'm not sure if it's flirting or more my confidence level goes through the roof and I start thanking everyone for even spending any time with me. It's all very embarassing.

Reply 11

Rutter knows best!

12

i flirt when i'm sober, when i'm drunk i get straight to the ****in point.

Reply 12

Unregistered

My problem seems to be that I fancy myself more than ever when i'm pissed and ALWAYS give people looks that suggest I want to bed them, when i'd probably like nothing less.

I'm surprised i've not been raped yet... i'm forever being bailed out by friends...

Reply 13

Rutter knows best!

12

Timeslikethese

My problem seems to be that I fancy myself more than ever when i'm pissed and ALWAYS give people looks that suggest I want to bed them, when i'd probably like nothing less.

I'm surprised i've not been raped yet... i'm forever being bailed out by friends...

touch wood.

Reply 14

Unregistered

No! No touching of wood... that'll get me raped, if I don't follow through...

Reply 15

Kady

I flirt way too much when i'm drunk, and ALWAYS regret it the next day because the flirting tends to go beyond flirting. I'm terrified i'm going to get drunk around one of my best friends (opposite sex) and make him scared of me because i'll come on too strong!

Reply 16

qubog

OP

12

Every time i've been out with my male friends I wake up in the morning with the fear that i've scared them by over flirting! It's a mixture of fear and shame...not good

Reply 17

Fairy.Dust.Forever

I'm a shameless over-flirter. Alot of my friends are really annoying drunks that get into fights or collapse and you have to carry them home. The plus of the simple 'uber flirt' is that you can feel good that you're not lyin in a heap, face down in a pool of ricey vomit. I prefer the way I am. Worst story being a house party where an older guy that looked like an obese wolf was trying to dance with me/ grope me/ snog me (crikey, I haven't said snog in ages!) so I told my mate that I was gonna be SUPER flirty with him in order to get this other guy to go away. The guy went away..... but only when i'd succeeded in pulling my mate.

Reply 18

coolguy456

I'm cringing right now thinking about the times where I have uber-flirted! Why is it that I always think the fit bar maid fancys me? Mind you she was staring at me and would go out of her way to serve me and I'm usually good with picking up signals *Reassuring myself that I'm not a total drunken fool*! :eek:

Reply 19

Fairy.Dust.Forever

coolguy456

I'm cringing right now thinking about the times where I have uber-flirted! Why is it that I always think the fit bar maid fancys me? Mind you she was staring at me and would go out of her way to serve me and I'm usually good with picking up signals *Reassuring myself that I'm not a total drunken fool*! :eek:

Now all I can think of is the times i've had to pull one of my mates away from girls with jealous boyfriends in close proximity. Uber flirt and deluded Gods gift syndrome are not necessarily associated :p:

not that i'm saying that's you :s-smilie:

Over-flirting when drunk

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