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Nervousness (Possibly)
Hi,
i started uni a few weeks ago and often found that people didn't make much effott to talk to me, so i did to them and have made friends and all that.
But today, a couple of them pointed out that i just look a very uncomfortable person who doesn't really want to be approached, very low on self confidence and they were quite surprised when i approached them, even if now they think im a nice guy etc etc
This isn't the kind of impression i want to give out... i don't want people to see me as uncomfortable and unapproachable
The other thing i'd had mentioned to me is that i appear very very tense, and could do with appearing more relaxed... a point that i agree wtih, but how?
Any suggestions? i'll give more info if you want it
i started uni a few weeks ago and often found that people didn't make much effott to talk to me, so i did to them and have made friends and all that.
But today, a couple of them pointed out that i just look a very uncomfortable person who doesn't really want to be approached, very low on self confidence and they were quite surprised when i approached them, even if now they think im a nice guy etc etc
This isn't the kind of impression i want to give out... i don't want people to see me as uncomfortable and unapproachable
The other thing i'd had mentioned to me is that i appear very very tense, and could do with appearing more relaxed... a point that i agree wtih, but how?
Any suggestions? i'll give more info if you want it
Reply 4
punktopia
Alcohol or other substances.
Does indeed help, but wasn't the sort of answer im after... more things to do in total sobriety...
Reply 6
When you approached them what were you like and what did you do? It seemed to work well and they like you so be like that towards everyone else.
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